vacation a disaster

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Brother, you guys seriously need to split. You are driving yourself into a grave, early grave. Talk to a lawyer, and get the heck outta there. I would, but I know it's hard when kids are involved. You both need to sit down and discuss this like adults.
 
Dame thats tough bro. Best thing to do is just as soon as you get the chance leave her. Because that is not worth it and you no whats going on, so you can never trust her again. I been threw this myself, just with no kids involved. Once she starts treating you like shit, just go treat yourself to somone better or go out and have a good time for yourself with friends. That way you wont be thinking about her, and she will regret the shit she did to you one day.
 
Sorry to hear man. Hope it all works out soon. I was in a similar situation and I knew that 'it' was happening. I tried to stick it out and things got bad, really bad. I know I don't have much respect around here, nor a great online presence, but like what BMJ said, "sit down and discuss this like adults" and if need be, "talk to a lawyer, and get the heck outta there".
Good luck man
 
Bro , Honestly from all the weeks up coming to your leaving for vacation I couldnt believe you still were going to chance going on vacation with that cheating woman and suffer through time with her when you knew deep down inside its not gonna work out
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Man UP grow a set of balls .....Get the hell out of that situation with her....and start bettering your life...Kids are very very strong and alot stronger than any of us know ,Dont try and stay together for the kids sake because it isnt healthy for anyone involved ....
If I lived close enough to you I would take your old ass out on the town for a night and the first time you mentioned your cheating wife I would slap the shit out of you .lol.......
I am truely sorry your vacation away has sucked and your wife is treating you this way ,I feel for you brother but NO one can change the outcome of that situation ,,,YOU ARE IN CONTROL ,,, take the wheel old fella and drive that situation the way it needs to go ............Were here man to listen and make suggestions but you my friend have to take control when you get back home ..And you said she wont talk or discuss anything ???? well when the sheriif delivers summons to appear papers for court she will talk then at divorce court ......
 
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I know this must hurt and be driving you crazy.
I would suggest, if you have a Pastor you can talk to, go get some couseling brother. It will be a good investment of your time.
Also you and her need to sit down with your kids and discuss what is happening with them before they freak out.
 
Just take care of yourself and kids bro. Take them out while your on vacation while she is going whatever she does. Just take them out to breakfast and then head to most fun place you can think of. Getting your mind off her and just having a good time, its going to make you realize you dont need her bro and there is still plenty to be happy about.
 
Is not insanity defined by by doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results.

Scrotum hair required here bro.
 
MR. BMJ said:
Brother, you guys seriously need to split. You are driving yourself into a grave, early grave. Talk to a lawyer, and get the heck outta there. I would, but I know it's hard when kids are involved. You both need to sit down and discuss this like adults.
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I have to agree, when things go to far down hill, there's no turning back imo.
 
Damn I'm really sorry to read about all this. It seems to me that you're doing everything you can to make things work while your wife does exactly the contrary and that's not good. Maybe you should both go separate ways ... She might then realize what she's missing.
 
If it was me and I wanted to keep the kids (full custody) I would spend a little money and put me a PI on here get some pics then burn her ass, Then leave with the smug smile on your face! Oh and take her ass for a hard ride when you do leave but you need the proof! PICS,ETC...
 
For the love of god man, everyone here is unanimous. Leave this bitch before this ends in a fucking murder/suicide.
 
Wait, why haven't you gone through her texts/ emails yet? Thats step 1 right there.
 
I just suggest be the man. Do the right thing. Tell her you are done, take care of the kids and just ignore her. Then when she trys to talk to you, just avoid it like she does to you, this way she will no how you feel.
 
Hey I got one question what's the age difference between the two of you guys?
 
if i was you, i would have all the threads deleted. all the shit is doing is bringin you down. you keep getting the same fucking advice. but you keep posting new chapters to this soap opera.

the more i sit and dwell about shit, the worse i get. so one day, i said Fuck It. moved fwd, did better.
 
mrhtbd said:
The gravity of the situation is more clear each day, especially since I got her to show some of her cards.
I have been working a plan for two years, getting out of debt, cleaning anything "questionable" out, making my urine clean. All done already.
Solidifying plans for the future now thanks to many caring and patient bro's.
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the gravity blah blah blah.

im sorry bro, but do you actually talk like this with people off line?

I feel like you are narrating a fkn documentary.

you borderline scare me.
 
Nothing wrong with having a vocabulary, Hawk. Might get a little pedantic at times, but I don't think it's intentional. We're here for you man. The problem is at this point all we can do is read, we've given all the advice we have to offer. You know what you have to do now. Get it done.
 
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