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Long story short.... hot girlfriend i dumped in college got married a few years back.. the closer i get to my funeral i mean wedding the more she has been talking to me

Any way its ok my girl knows we are friends and i shoot the shit wwith her husband as well..

Here is where it gets strange... she keeps telling me how she wants kids but her husband doesnt.. then she randomly brings up sexual. Stuff we did in the past... last time we talked she started talking about how cute our kids could have been

I am starting to think she wants me to knock her up..

Should I just ask? I am just worried she will say yes.. cuz then i would hit it..lol
 
Dude if you love the woman your with Stay away from the Ex! Your begging for trouble!! Would you like it if your wife to be was talking to her Ex-boyfriend about sex? Nope do the right thing and leave it alone besides she's married bro..
 
Freezerdude said:
Dude if you love the woman your with Stay away from the Ex! Your begging for trouble!! Would you like it if your wife to be was talking to her Ex-boyfriend about sex? Nope do the right thing and leave it alone besides she's married bro..
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TX ----this Above right here as FD says ...
10 years ago I would have told you to knock the bottom out of your Ex and your Ol lady on the same day....But now , the older I get the more I realize life just isnt about that sweet little snatch them gals carry around ,theres more to life ,lots more important stuff.
:at: Sometimes it sucks but its better to stay faithful to your girl and commiteed to pleasing her.....
 
stay away from your ex--nothing but trouble will come of it
 
Yeah, bro, go for it. You know that guy isn't treatin' his woman right, no?
Give it too her straight, let them raise your baby. All that matters is you get your dick wet again, right?
Is the guy your buddy, after all the "chatting" you've done over time?
Even better to screw him over, do it, do it.
You're a man, though, right! Yeah, well he must not be a man, he only married her and gave her access to his future lock, stock, and barrel.
You know all it takes to be a man is to lay that pipe, right?
Well, if he ain't doin' it right then step up, man, do the right thing, lay into that woman like somehow she has more sense now then when you were in college.
You weren't a keeper for her then, but now that you're settling in with another woman she see's she can still "take you," like a drug dealer "takes" a sucker with more money than sense. Maybe she's only competing with the other woman? No, no, no, she totally digs you man!!! Right? She wouldn't just "take" you, would she?
Let her take you bro, show you are takable!
To hell with her husband, he can't do shit or risk losing everything he's worked for. You, on the other hand, are a real MAN, you can handle it. You can prove who is the real man. Drill her like she's a new prospect, waitin' to be tapped and begging for a claim to be struck!

He doesn't want a baby with her, why? Maybe he's seen things in her that don't fit well with his desired future. Maybe he has doubts that her good looks might end there and her mothering skills leave something great to be desired. Maybe he sees her using him for this and/or that, pretending to love him but seemingly only loving him If he does this and If he does that, like dangling a carrot on a stick in front of a work-horse, and maybe he sees himself used as an animal just along to carry her load.
How honorable it would be for you to step in and "finish him off." It doesn't matter if he's a beta sucker, right?

I always felt that the last vestage of honor among men was to not mess with another man's woman. That's what I thought, but Maybe I was wrong.
So go for it, set him up, make sure he's here so you and her can be there. It's all worth it, right, just to have a wet dick?

Oh, but when you're looking down the barrel of vengeance, don't blame me!!!
 
I was brought up in a somewhat strict home with really good values! I could basicly do as I pleased but I was raised on Christian values and was made to go to Church as a child but stopped going after I got in my teens (13+) but never forgot what I was taught and lessons learned.. Even though I started going back to church on and off after I got old enough to realize i was just a young Idiot (30+) I ALWAYS remember Mom telling me to always treat others the way I would like them to treat me and I know in my heart if I was ever to cheat on my wife (which I couldn't do) I wouldn't be able to sleep at nights from the guilt not to mention I know how it would devistate me if my wife was to ever cheat on me, Not only never being able to look at her the same way again the trust we have would be gone never to return and it would break my heart!!! And if you don't have trust you don't have a relationship!!
Even though I know it's not right, I'm still a man and will glance and do Notice a beautiful woman when one walks in a room where I am or if I see one at a restaurant,Gym or Store,etc however I would never take it any further than that even if I was approached by her offering her numer or anything!
With that said I do get checked out a lot and have beautiful women look and stare at me from time to time but that's just because their admiring the hard work I've put in to get where I am, but this doesn't mean they want to bang me..lol, although it does make you feel good knowing a good looking woman has just checked you out admiring your body and hard work. Just like the same as any man does a womans pretty looks and even though my wife won't admit it half the time but sometime she will she sees it and I know she gets jealous even if she says she's not and I think she just says that because she knows I would never cheat on her and she has no reason to be jealous..
Sometimes when she catches them looking at me and it's a really pretty girl she's say go ahead! I said what? lol And she'll say go get her.I'll laugh and she'll say go fuck her I know you want to..I'll just say No I don't! She's is pretty but not as pretty as you and besides I have all I need right here with you, that is always my answer which is the truth..Like BT said 15 years ago when single,young and dumb I'd be all over each and everyone of them..
Marriage is something I take very serious and would never commit adultry! No matter the circumstances... Good luck my friend I hope you make the right choice...
 
Freezerdude said:
I was brought up in a somewhat strict home with really good values! I could basicly do as I pleased but I was raised on Christian values and was made to go to Church as a child but stopped going after I got in my teens (13+) but never forgot what I was taught and lessons learned.. Even though I started going back to church on and off after I got old enough to realize i was just a young Idiot (30+) I ALWAYS remember Mom telling me to always treat others the way I would like them to treat me and I know in my heart if I was ever to cheat on my wife (which I couldn't do) I wouldn't be able to sleep at nights from the guilt not to mention I know how it would devistate me if my wife was to ever cheat on me, Not only never being able to look at her the same way again the trust we have would be gone never to return and it would break my heart!!! And if you don't have trust you don't have a relationship!!
Even though I know it's not right, I'm still a man and will glance and do Notice a beautiful woman when one walks in a room where I am or if I see one at a restaurant,Gym or Store,etc however I would never take it any further than that even if I was approached by her offering her numer or anything!
With that said I do get checked out a lot and have beautiful women look and stare at me from time to time but that's just because their admiring the hard work I've put in to get where I am, but this doesn't mean they want to bang me..lol, although it does make you feel good knowing a good looking woman has just checked you out admiring your body and hard work. Just like the same as any man does a womans pretty looks and even though my wife won't admit it half the time but sometime she will she sees it and I know she gets jealous even if she says she's not and I think she just says that because she knows I would never cheat on her and she has no reason to be jealous..
Sometimes when she catches them looking at me and it's a really pretty girl she's say go ahead! I said what? lol And she'll say go get her.I'll laugh and she'll say go fuck her I know you want to..I'll just say No I don't! She's is pretty but not as pretty as you and besides I have all I need right here with you, that is always my answer which is the truth..Like BT said 15 years ago when single,young and dumb I'd be all over each and everyone of them..
Marriage is something I take very serious and would never commit adultry! No matter the circumstances... Good luck my friend I hope you make the right choice...
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Thank you, Freezerdude, I am not alone!
 
I an so ugly this never happens to me. I have nothing to contribute.
 
Glycomann said:
I an so ugly this never happens to me. I have nothing to contribute.
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BWahahaahahaha,
I figuired all them Old ladies wheeling around with there walkers and canes, and electric scooters in that nurseing home would be hittin all over you Gman while your working out in the Old folks home gym sweating all over and makeing animal noises .
:at: Sorry Gman I had to poke fun ,,,Forgive me ?
 
BikerTrash said:
BWahahaahahaha,
I figuired all them Old ladies wheeling around with there walkers and canes, and electric scooters in that nurseing home would be hittin all over you Gman while your working out in the Old folks home gym sweating all over and makeing animal noises .
:at: Sorry Gman I had to poke fun ,,,Forgive me ?
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:squintfin:tounge2:
 
All joking aside, this is common in nature. It's called kucklery. I have the spelling wrong but the kuckle is a bird. the female will take a long term mate but copulate with other males. Her long term male will help raise all the bastard offspring. It's a way that nature enhances genetic diversity. it's studies most in birds. many species are studied. I remember years ago when this was a passing interest of mine I read a paper that accounded for misaligned genetics in human families. That is, those where the fatehr was not the biological father. The numbers were shocking but I can't recall them. I know I thought sluts when I read it and looked at my own kids for my features. Luckily there is no doubt with mine... I think.
 
bufbiker said:
I'm ugly and scary looking and very married, almost 30 years.
My advice, run!!! Run fast, and don't look back!
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Talk about scarey. I remember this one time. I was living in this apt complex. There was a shitty little gym in the basement. I spent most of my time working or drinking in front of my TV watching the news and yelling at the TV. I would go down to the gym and work out and this one day i was riding the elevator back up and it stopped on the first floor. this young couple was about to get on and they just stopped dead in their tracks when they caught site of me standing there with veins in my head shoulders and neck shuffling back and forth with a jump rope wrapped around my hand. I laughed and told them to get on. they got on and faced the corner head down. I just stood there and laughed.
 
now lets take bets if he will actually listen to us old men on this stuff
 
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Tap it maybe get a three way going with your future wife....it seems like todays women are open to this idea.... haha
 
this thread is funny as hell, you guys are cracking me up

i will add this, i was raised old school also, and even tho my marriage exp has left a bad taste in my mouth, a huge hole in my heart and made me put my wall back up.. LEAVE THAT CRAZY BITCH ALONE BRO! imagine the karma associated with that...
 
These "situations" all start out the same. Then they always go through the same stages and phases. Then they all end the same.
 
Darkness said:
These "situations" all start out the same. Then they always go through the same stages and phases. Then they all end the same.
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Yea they all end bad....

Like i said i dont know if this is what she is leading to
and the conversation are never sexual other then remeber that timekind of stuff no details ever talked of

Her husband is a self centered douche bag and i only deal with him because of her if not for her i would knock him the fuck out

As my history with her she was my best friend for 3years
then we got together and after 6 months went back to being friends
that was 6 years ago now....

Just strange.. while i wanna knock the bottom out
i know that the gram of test in me

Would be a bad ass 3some.. but my girl is to straight laced for that


99.999% i wouldnt do i

Thanks for the feed back guys
 
TxRebel said:
Yea they all end bad....

Like i said i dont know if this is what she is leading to
and the conversation are never sexual other then remeber that timekind of stuff no details ever talked of

Her husband is a self centered douche bag and i only deal with him because of her if not for her i would knock him the fuck out

As my history with her she was my best friend for 3years
then we got together and after 6 months went back to being friends
that was 6 years ago now....

Just strange.. while i wanna knock the bottom out
i know that the gram of test in me

Would be a bad ass 3some.. but my girl is to straight laced for that


99.999% i wouldnt do i

Thanks for the feed back guys
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Nice leaving yourself .001%. I wouldnt even need that much to fuck up.
 
Glycomann said:
All joking aside, this is common in nature. It's called kucklery. I have the spelling wrong but the kuckle is a bird. the female will take a long term mate but copulate with other males. Her long term male will help raise all the bastard offspring. It's a way that nature enhances genetic diversity. it's studies most in birds. many species are studied. I remember years ago when this was a passing interest of mine I read a paper that accounded for misaligned genetics in human families. That is, those where the fatehr was not the biological father. The numbers were shocking but I can't recall them. I know I thought sluts when I read it and looked at my own kids for my features. Luckily there is no doubt with mine... I think.
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I beleive the word is "cuckold," as in, "You mean to tell me you've been cuckolding me for nine years???"
Reference:
History of the term





Ca. 1815 French satire on cuckoldry, which shows both men and women wearing horns.
Cuckold derives from the cuckoo bird, alluding to the alleged habit of the female bird in changing its mate frequently and authentic practice of laying its eggs in other nests within its community.[2] The association is common in medieval folklore, literature, and iconography. The original old English was "kukewold". It was borrowed from Old French "cuccault", which was made up of "cuccu" (old French for the cuckoo bird itself) plus the pejorative suffix ? "ault", indicating the named person was being taken advantage of as by a cuckoo bird.

In medieval literature, the "kukewold" was almost universally scorned instead of the adulterous wife, they were viewed as worthless due to their physical stature and somehow at fault for the adulterous act. The word was chosen in an attempt to connote scorn.

Usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" (l. 1544). The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (ca. 1440).

The female equivalent cuckquean first appears in English literature in 1562, adding a female suffix to the "cuck"; Wittol, which substitutes "wete" (meaning witting or knowing) for the first part of the word, first appears in 1520 and means a man aware of and reconciled to his wife's infidelity (in contrast to a cuckold, who by the original definition had been deceived by his wife).

Modern western culture tends to shun infidelity as something abhorrent to discuss, so the very existence of this word appears awkward to many and hence its use in modern days is very limited.[citation needed]

Medieval literature was much more focused on the subject of infidelity and subsequently the term was one of many coined to bring a vocabulary to the culture of the time.
 

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Man if you are wanting to sleep with your ex what are you doing getting married. You gotta make a decision man. If you love the girl youre with and really want to be with her then cut contact with the ex.
 
mrhtbd said:
I beleive the word is "cuckold," as in, "You mean to tell me you've been cuckolding me for nine years???"
Reference:
History of the term





Ca. 1815 French satire on cuckoldry, which shows both men and women wearing horns.
Cuckold derives from the cuckoo bird, alluding to the alleged habit of the female bird in changing its mate frequently and authentic practice of laying its eggs in other nests within its community.[2] The association is common in medieval folklore, literature, and iconography. The original old English was "kukewold". It was borrowed from Old French "cuccault", which was made up of "cuccu" (old French for the cuckoo bird itself) plus the pejorative suffix ? "ault", indicating the named person was being taken advantage of as by a cuckoo bird.

In medieval literature, the "kukewold" was almost universally scorned instead of the adulterous wife, they were viewed as worthless due to their physical stature and somehow at fault for the adulterous act. The word was chosen in an attempt to connote scorn.

Usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" (l. 1544). The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (ca. 1440).

The female equivalent cuckquean first appears in English literature in 1562, adding a female suffix to the "cuck"; Wittol, which substitutes "wete" (meaning witting or knowing) for the first part of the word, first appears in 1520 and means a man aware of and reconciled to his wife's infidelity (in contrast to a cuckold, who by the original definition had been deceived by his wife).

Modern western culture tends to shun infidelity as something abhorrent to discuss, so the very existence of this word appears awkward to many and hence its use in modern days is very limited.[citation needed]

Medieval literature was much more focused on the subject of infidelity and subsequently the term was one of many coined to bring a vocabulary to the culture of the time.
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That's it right! Thanks.
 
Back away , back away fast!!! That shit never turns out good. It don't start good, and it aint gonna end good-someone(usually an innocent) always gets hurt. Besides if she wasn't good enough the first round, why the hell would ya consider her for a second?? Just sayin. Do what yer gonna do, you gotta live with the concience, and wouldn't it be great if the concience came with an eight pound lifetime reminder???
 
Ok... lets not look at her as an Ex we have been friends for years
and just hooked up for a short time..
I am not even sure this is what she is talking about. But the way she words things
makes me think that... i guess i did somthing right if she wants it again
if i wasnt getting married there would be nothing stopping me
I wont cheat on my girl i lover her to much.. yea someone will talk shut well if you lover why are you talking about this.. save that shit for someone else because we all knows what runs through our heads even more so while on cycle

Guess this is move a vent.. seeing it in black and white helps clear shit ip
 
If you are seriously considering cheating before you even get married, your marriage is doomed before it even gets started. There are going to be a lot of temptations, especially after the reality of being in a lifelong commitment sets in, but if you're having second thoughts before the ceremony....well just ask yourself how you would feel if you found out your fiance was thinking that way about another man.

If your old friend realizes you're engaged and is sending you those signals, she's never really been a true friend.
 
If you love your soon to be wife and you go near your ex then yeah it pretty much will be your funeral.

Not to be a dick, but if you cheat on your current GF and she hasn't done anything wrong then she deserves better.
 
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