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ozzy69

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need some advice---how does everyone keep a balance in their lives?

my wife has been hounding me about the way i utilitize my time

there are just never enough hours in the day any more
 
Women are tough. i know.. not much help. Well what do you do? Probably work your ass off, work out and spend time with the family. What else does she want? What else do you want, which is probably more important.
 
I gave up on a balanced life. Sooner or later every women that I've been with started bitching about my gym time.
 
All I do is work lately. I hate it but it is what it is, and it pays the bills.
 
work work work is all i do its 6 days a week and i maybe get in 4 work outs a week and its a struggle to got those in lately with all of her bitching--granted she is 6 months pregnant and that has a lot to do with it
 
I have no idea what balance is. There may have been some times when I have it for a few seconds a year.

When I am criticized for this, I give it some honest open thought. Usually the case is that the critic needs to extract themselves from my ass and get some of their own stuff going on in their own life apart from me. I am not the giver of happiness. That is just me and my life, not yours.
 
ozzy69 said:
work work work is all i do its 6 days a week and i maybe get in 4 work outs a week and its a struggle to got those in lately with all of her bitching--granted she is 6 months pregnant and that has a lot to do with it
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Hormones can do some crazy things to us women. She is most likely exhausted and still doing all the things she normally does. Maybe just a little more help or maybe she just needs some extra attention/TLC?
 
Balance in life is an illusion, all we can do is take what life throws at us. You'll find balance when you're dead.
 
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Hormones can do some crazy things to us women. She is most likely exhausted and still doing all the things she normally does. Maybe just a little more help or maybe she just needs some extra attention/TLC?
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.. rub her belly?
 
Balance? what is this ?
My ol lady stays home and tends to the house and kids. I make it somewhat easier for my gym time by going at 4:45am in the morning prior to work so that it doesnt interfere with the family time ,so I start my day each morning with food , weights , sauna and then to work ...
We/I do not live anywhere close to a balanced life ,I have a terrible attitude 98% of the time and the Ol Lady tries her damnest to take into consideration all the factors.
Our balance comes from vacations alone , weekends camping away and fishing ...Deer season brings calming woods time for me .
But there is no Balance per say at home because everyday is a new day and who the hell knows what kind of Mood BikerTrash will wake in ......
 
I am fortunate to be able to lift for lunch three or four times a week. I work from 8-8 6 days a week. That's my sanity. Well Saturday i usually get done at 5:00..
My wife and I have sex on the 15th and 30th. I get to spend an hour with my son in the morning and an hour and a half in the evening. We get all day on Sunday.
A balanced life is not part of our culture anymore.
 
I don't think balance is a relative term.
Certainly not weighed with equity.
I try to fulfill my needs balanced with the needs of my kids minus the lack of time invested by my spouse.
That usually means I carry a heavier load, especially with the kids, but as I want them in my life in the future I see it more as an investment.
If anything, time for myself is lacking, but maybe it's time to change all that.
 
MAn when life gets busy, the only way to be able ot make time is to be organized to a TEEEEEEEEEEEE and planning your week out, and being prepared for the unexpected.
 
Hmm.. Now my girl lives in the gym just as much as I do... However she gets mad at me for the constant shuffeling of the names on my list! haha
 
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