She left me

[P. Bateman]

After 10 years, girlfriend decided to call it quits. What's funny is it feels odd, slightly uncomfortable, but not terrible. Maybe it hasn't hit me yet. So, she went to Canada's Wonderland herself today, with two other couples. Which means I didn't have to go, that's good. Spent all day cleaning. I guess I'm too lame, oh well, fuck 'em all.

 

[theartofwar]

that sucks bro - at least it is summer - perfect time to go out and find another chica.

 

[P. Bateman]

Naw. I think I'm gonna kick back, hang with my kids, and figure out what I really want out of life.

 

[theartofwar]

how old are you ?

 

[P. Bateman]

30, just turned, 08 June, but feel much older.

 

[Guest]

im very sorry to hear that surround urself with friends to help u through the rough time.... sooo canada's wonderland do you live in toronto?

 

[Dawgpound_Hank]

Sorry brutha. Perhaps she was waiting for the ring and figured if after THIS long, it wasn't going anywhere. I had that happen before myself...but it was 3 years not 10.lol

Regardless, best of luck. You're a youngbuck...you'll be good to go in time I'm sure.

 

[theartofwar]

How's it work with the kids if you don't mind me asking ? (btw happy belated bday brother).

 

[mrhtbd]

Like Hank wrote, you're a youngbuck, but ten years is a long time.
Is she your kids' mother?

 

[P. Bateman]

Yep.

 

[JrMaFia]

30 is the new 20 seriously

 

[P. Bateman]

How's it work with the kids if you don't mind me asking ? (btw happy belated bday brother).

We'll share custody, I don't think that will be a problem.

 

[P. Bateman]

30 is the new 20 seriously

I know it's crazy. I'm just now thinking about taking a different career route.

 

[P. Bateman]

Like Hank wrote, you're a youngbuck, byt ten years is a long time.
Is dhe your kids' mother?

it's been a long time coming, couple of years actually. The things we do out of convenience.

 

[theartofwar]

30 is the new 20 seriously

I'm 24 - does this mean I can just enjoy juvenile court again ??? lol. It is true though - esp with economy as is - people seem to start things a fresh around 30-35 all over. That's why I never finished college, 2 years and was like - this is a lot of my money and I have no clue what I will use it for.

 

[mrhtbd]

it's been a long time coming, couple of years actually. The things we do out of convenience.

I know what you mean Mr. Bateman, convenience.
Been living that lie for 11 years and no day seems any more secure than any other no matter how much effort, time, or money I throw at it.
Just imagine what it could be like to be with someone who actually appreciates you, and I hope it's possible.
Otherwise, love those children. We are just vehicles anyway.

 

[Trapology]

it's been a long time coming, couple of years actually. The things we do out of convenience.

i was just about to say, if shes only your girlfriend after 10 years there probably isnt much of a future there

 

[Barbell_Barbie]

sorry to hear this hun

 

[P. Bateman]

I'll be fine.

 

[Barbell_Barbie]

i know you are

 

[P. Bateman]

You my dear need to take a wee trip to Canada, make a poor heartbroken youngman feel better! ;-)

 

[black7]

You my dear need to take a wee trip to Canada, make a poor heartbroken youngman feel better! ;-)

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