sigh..more love life advice from black7

[black7]

so i been seeing this girl right.. she got her shit together headed in right direction, great personality, and a nice rack... but fact is i really like her...

the other day she asked me what i thought about her... i told her that i really like her and think about her alot and would love to continue seeing her for awhile...

then she told me i scare the shit out of her... wtf is that??

i asked her what she means she said she has never met a man like me before (talking about having goals and just generally how i look at life) and that we have wayyy to much in common and she likes to hangout with me and that scares her....


what does this really mean?? am i ugly?? do i scare her because i am ugly??

seriously i think she may have trust issues... could that be the case?

 

[FTC]

well not that im one to give advice but to me it looks like she thinks youre too good for her and shes afraid of getting attatched and you burning her later on. or youre ugly, lol...:flipoffha

sounds like youre coming off as good guy material. which is suprisingly not a good thing

 

[Ching]

FTC has it covered, it's either that, or your penis is too small.

 

[meateater]

so i been seeing this girl right.. she got her shit together headed in right direction, great personality, and a nice rack... but fact is i really like her...

the other day she asked me what i thought about her... i told her that i really like her and think about her alot and would love to continue seeing her for awhile...

then she told me i scare the shit out of her... wtf is that??

i asked her what she means she said she has never met a man like me before (talking about having goals and just generally how i look at life) and that we have wayyy to much in common and she likes to hangout with me and that scares her....


what does this really mean?? am i ugly?? do i scare her because i am ugly??
seriously i think she may have trust issues... could that be the case?

Yes, your ugliness IS scary.....lol...j/k, bro....she prolly really likes you and may want to take things to the next level....whateva that may be.:worried:

 

[IRON37]

lol black I got the same problem man. What the hell girls mean when they say theyre "scared" of a good person could mean so many damn things. Just hang around awhile and dont invest more into her than you can comfortably lose lol. Her true self will eventually come out...if all else fails, then start ignoring her and be an ass.

 

[IxxTapouTxxI]

Maybe it's because you're too foken big...maybe she meant to say "she never met a man a big as you and that scares her"

Now that I've boosted your ego call her and ask her out to a nice dinner...then talk things out...I'm sure you're a good talker.

 

[Scotsmark]

She could be scared by the fact that she's found "The One", the guy she's been looking for since she started thinking about guys, the guy who's not a waster, the guy she can have kids with and know he'll be a good father and provider, maybe she's meaning spooked a little instead of scared, not fear but a realisation. Maybe what I just wrote is all bollocks and she just wants rid of you cos she thinks that, deep down, she can't see herself being with a guy who's ugly but at least as you're a big mofo you keep the nerds, geeks and retards away!


J/K about that last bit though

 

[meateater]

No, he's just ugly.

 

[black7]

haha

ill admit im ugly... ill let her put a bag over my head if she wants...

but seriously thanks for advices fellas

 

[meateater]

haha

ill admit im ugly... ill let her put a bag over my head if she wants...

but seriously thanks for advices fellas

Talk it out with her......say "so what's this shit about me being scary? Am I SCARY? Do I make you scared? (shouting, of course)