Women are so full of shit

Cruci

Cruci

Vet
I have seen it for 26 years and it still boggles my mind.
Women always say they want a nice guy, and every time a nice guy comes along they shit on him the first chance they get. I have always been too nice for my own good to women, a habit I am trying to get out of.

It makes about as much sense for someone to talk about having a big juicy steak for years and years and how you hate grilled chicken. Then when you finally go out to eat at a steakhouse, you order chicken. Then the next day you go back to your same story about "the steak that I have never had." Maybe a shitty analogy, but you get the point.

I would seriously love a woman to explain to me their obsession for dick heads. I am sure that women will respond to this with "not all women are like that" and blah blah blah. SAVE IT. There might be a few women out there that really do want guys to treat them with respect, but I have yet to meet one.

I love these fucking emails and chain letters (myspace is the worst for them) about "20 things a woman wants from a man" or similar loads of fecal matter. I see them all the time, and a lot of times it is from women that I know that have never given a nice guy a second thought but adore assholes. I wonder they say shit like that to try to trick themselves into believing the lie? It is really pathetic.

Now when I hear some woman say shit like "I dated this guy for years and he treated me like shit the whole time" I simply think one thing: that they completely deserved every minute of it. And why? Simple. Because if they really wanted out of it, they would of left him.

I am going to conduct an experiment, I am going to be a prick to every woman I start dating, and I am willing to bet that I will will fare much better than I have been. Will keep you updated.

Rant over, piss off.
 
All I can say is this is not the "norm"; women that use men and like to be treated like crap have some sort of past history problems. Whether they were abused as a child, had a messed up family life something is not right.
 
Ms.Wetback said:
All I can say is this is not the "norm"; women that use men and like to be treated like crap have some sort of past history problems. Whether they were abused as a child, had a messed up family life something is not right.
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Maybe, but I am sick of it. I would have respect if a woman came out and said, "I hate nice guys, treat me like shit and I am yours." At least then you aren't putting up some fake front. It would be nice if something with tits could tell the truth for once.
 
Ms.Wetback said:
I always tell the truth .......... you just don't like hearing it ;) :eertoast:
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Here we go again. :D

I will believe everything you say when you can back it up with something. Or at least handle some scrutiny with it. Me and you discussing religion is pointless because the conversation always turns out the same way.
 
Cruci i could not agree more. I am the same way as you. Not in my nature to be a dick or play games.
 
Both of you are right, but I think it's more about the attention. If they grew up having to fight for attention, then that is what they are used to. If you just hand it to them or if it is there for the taking, it won't satisfy their craving as well. Dickheads have learned that or they just don't give a shit. In a nut shell you have to act like you don't care. They will whine and tell you that you are an asshole but thats what they need (subconciously). And the second that you start giving them attention without them having to beg for it, your done. The table will turn and she is going to lose interest.
 
Cruci I used to be a player bro and I hear what you are saying... The misconception is this though: its not so much women like an asshole they just like a challenge. Guys are the same way. Nobody wants someone that will do everything for them it gets boring. It sometimes comes off as being an asshole but not the asshole that yells or hits or just treats a girl like straight trash. Girls want a guy with confidence one that will set up a date not one that says whatever you want to do hunny. The asshole part that comes in is not do everything for the girl maintain control. Let her be independent and let her do things for you. She needs to put emotional effort in the relationship just as much as you so that she will committed. I always tell my friends and even myself not to lose who I am in a relationship. What I mean is still doing the things I enjoy on my own or with her which keeps my identity. It will keep the girl attracted and if the relationship goes sour you won't be standing there feeling alone. Aight well thats enough of a rant for tonight. Bottom line is not to be an asshole but to maintain your individuality(which keeps you interesting and *mysterious*) trust me it works
 
Most relationships are all about power control. One partner, be it the guy or the chick, will have at least some more sway over the other.
Bottom line, if you want the edge, you have to be more assertive than your partner and make more decisive decisions.

It's not about being an asshole, but simply about being in control and felling comfortable w/ it.
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The only other way than listed above ^^^, would be to date a partner w/ a higher insecurity complex the you(if you have any at all). This could be for any reason, he/she may feel the other is better looking, makes more money etc...thus creating a feeling within the insecure partner to feel "lucky" to be involved w/ you, dumping the odds in your favour
 
i have never mistreated a woman.They enjoy my company,i treat them nice and with respect..my problem is i just cheat..:D


and Ching is gayer than AIDS.
 
No I do believe that woman prefer nice guys. But most guys mistake being nice to woman as being a nice guy.. Being nice is being ince down to the core. We all know a guy who is just genuinely nice.. to each and everyone.. woman, man, cab driver, bus driver, cashier, grocery bagger, family friends, etc.. You know the one that would help ne one and everyone even if its at 3 o clock at night. Those guys are almost never single cause they are a nice guy..

Now dont mistake this to be the nice guy thats only nice to the woman. Someone that offers helping woman, picking them up, doing whatever they want etc. etc. while in real life they wouldnt do the same exact things for neone else.. Those guys are not "nice" they have just changed themselves for the girl and its a false image.
 
bhumik said:
No I do believe that woman prefer nice guys. But most guys mistake being nice to woman as being a nice guy.. Being nice is being ince down to the core. We all know a guy who is just genuinely nice.. to each and everyone.. woman, man, cab driver, bus driver, cashier, grocery bagger, family friends, etc.. You know the one that would help ne one and everyone even if its at 3 o clock at night. Those guys are almost never single cause they are a nice guy..

Now dont mistake this to be the nice guy thats only nice to the woman. Someone that offers helping woman, picking them up, doing whatever they want etc. etc. while in real life they wouldnt do the same exact things for neone else.. Those guys are not "nice" they have just changed themselves for the girl and its a false image.
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Well wtf why have I been single for 2 years now?
Maybe I'm fugly lol
 
Cruci I know what you mean, I think most everyone can relate. Prtty much every girl Ive been with was the same way. I tried to treat them like human beings, and respect them. So they got bored or cheated or something. And end up being with some ugly retard that treats them like the shit they are. Im with a girl now that was in a 2.5 year abusive relationship. Why in the fuck you would stay with someone that long that abuses you..I dont know? I always wonder if she enjoyed it in some way. Or if thats what she expects now. Shes so damn submissive though, it is pretty frustrating actually. I guess time will tell. I wish I could be more of an asshole myself..I honestly think I have too much restraint for my own good sometimes. Who knows what the hell anybody really wants anymore lol
 
The whole 'women love assholes' thing is false.
Cause those assholes were once nice guys in the early part of the relationship,
they just turned INTO assholes.

Granted the assholes are labeled assholes,
but they have their sweet moments that the woman still holds onto,
but mostly they just miss the man he used to be and wish for that back.

And when a woman says "oh my bf of 1000 years has always been an asshole and abusive,"
don't believe her.
Since when do we listen to what women say?

You just gotta find a woman that just fuckin CLICKS.
It shouldnt be hard work or a hassle to make it work.
 
Elite said:
Both of you are right, but I think it's more about the attention. If they grew up having to fight for attention, then that is what they are used to. If you just hand it to them or if it is there for the taking, it won't satisfy their craving as well. Dickheads have learned that or they just don't give a shit. In a nut shell you have to act like you don't care. They will whine and tell you that you are an asshole but thats what they need (subconciously). And the second that you start giving them attention without them having to beg for it, your done. The table will turn and she is going to lose interest.
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That sounds pretty right on...
 
OLYMPIAN said:
i have never mistreated a woman.They enjoy my company,i treat them nice and with respect..my problem is i just cheat..:D
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I'm with you on that one oly, hahahah I think there is something wrong with me, and so dose my ex.Hahahah.
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I guess im one of the A_HOLES!!!!:sperm:
 
see, but do not confuse for an asshole, i dont put them down ,never touch a woman in my life..right off the bat i let most know im not looking for a serious relationship but they wrongly think they can change me..:D..
 
i am null and void on this subject because i have no freakin idea what women want. i been tryin to figure it out for 26 years... i just be myself in relationships... seems to work...
 
black7 said:
i am null and void on this subject because i have no freakin idea what women want. i been tryin to figure it out for 26 years... i just be myself in relationships... seems to work...
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you should try DICKS better.
 
women are insaaaaaaaaaaaaaane. your too nice and they are too good looking. they get bored.

i just want a girl that's nice and passionate. I usually get that at the beginning of a relationship. but then when they get comfortable with it they ALL turn into bitches. ALL
 
You have to keep a girl on her toes that is the bottom line when they know u get comfortable and slack of you are done.
 
Interesting.

First of all what age group are we talking here? Women are generally messed up when they are young. They don't even know what they want.

There is a big difference between a "nice guy" and a guy that treats women with respect. Very few women want a man that caters to her 100%. Like others said we want a challenge. We don't always want to here how beautiful we look when we're doing laundry, but we wnat to hear it when we put in an effort to go out with you and look good. We want a man that acts like a man. Sometimes if a typical Nice guy is around he's too nice and we don't feel protected. Know what I mean? You have to be aggresive, confident, yet passionate and of course respectful.

I don't know if that makes any sense. But women want to feel like women. Beautiful, secure, protected, and wanted.. But then again I guess I'm speaking for myself.
 
You wont make it trying to be an asshole if you aren't one, especially if your into the girl. I was with my ex wife for 13yrs, really didn't date at all previous to her. I'm in a new relationship now and I defiantly play things differently, not necessarily head games but I say whats on my mind no matter what, I don't sugar coat shit anymore or hold it in and wait for shit to change. I'm more aggressive with what i want and let it be known, if I'm not happy I tell it like it is. I treat her very good, but I'm not as "nice" as I used to be, no way is anyone going to walk all over me, not appreciate what I do or disrespect my feelings. I think being more blunt gives me the edge I need and it's kept me there.
 
I agree 110% I always had all you stated except the confidence. The past 5yrs or so my confidence has risen dramatically and I notice a huge difference with being approached and the way it effects the relationship.

cjas said:
Interesting.

First of all what age group are we talking here? Women are generally messed up when they are young. They don't even know what they want.

There is a big difference between a "nice guy" and a guy that treats women with respect. Very few women want a man that caters to her 100%. Like others said we want a challenge. We don't always want to here how beautiful we look when we're doing laundry, but we wnat to hear it when we put in an effort to go out with you and look good. We want a man that acts like a man. Sometimes if a typical Nice guy is around he's too nice and we don't feel protected. Know what I mean? You have to be aggresive, confident, yet passionate and of course respectful.

I don't know if that makes any sense. But women want to feel like women. Beautiful, secure, protected, and wanted.. But then again I guess I'm speaking for myself.
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SORRY to bring up old shit.. but i been seeing this chick.. i really like her... but i dont want to fall in to the catagorey discussed in this thread.. you guys say women want a challenge... so she already told me i am mysterious..i asked her what that mean and she was like "well its a good thing..you always keep me guessing and i dont know what to think about you... does he like me does he not." kinda thing...

well all of this is before i liked her... i was just hanging out with this chick for a little bit and really thought she was kinda cool and shit... now she has got me thinkin about her all the time and i dont feel like i am on top like i was when i was "mysterious"

i told her that i like her alot and i think i fucked up... i dont know... this thread just has me paranoid as fuck.. lol
 
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