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P. Bateman said:
Man, that's a good one. I think we all, especially us "freaks", wish we would have tried to derive more pleasure out of life.
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That's part of it. But I really mean choosing to have a happy attitude instead of a melancholy victim like attitude. I firmly believe all people choose their attitude in all situations. I have made made some bad choices.
 
Darkness said:
That's part of it. But I really mean choosing to have a happy attitude instead of a melancholy victim like attitude. I firmly believe all people choose their attitude in all situations. I have made made some bad choices.
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I know what you mean, man, because I'm right there with you.
 
One of my biggest regrets in life is marring my ex wife twice, even though she was a fucking hot lingerie model for JC Pennys and I really loved her but feel like I wasted 5 extra years of my life on her! I could have spend being more productive but you live and learn and besides if it would have worked out I wouldn't have my lovely wife and Daughter now.. So something good came out of it after all...
 
Accepting the normal day to day things people do with their life and career as what I should do. As soon as I realized I don't have to be like all the other cattle, things started opening up. To tell the truth, this has just happened in the last 1/4 of my life. Is it self centered?

I still struggle with it because the norm feels safe and you have a large support group. I always feel better about myself when I look for the bigger and better. Being a victim is easy. It doesn't take much effort to just get by but you will also fall into the world through shit stained glasses state of mind Darkness talked about.
 
Life is what it is. You make good choices and bad choices and it's those choices that make us what we are.
I do wish I hadn't slept with that fat chiuck though. There was nothing gained by that at all except to say I had done it.
 
No regrets so far. I just break my ass and I know if I do long enough and keep getting up when I get knocked on my ass I'm gonna get what I want. As long as you do that there are no regrets.
 
I've been with my gf for 2.5 yrs.. After fighting like crazy the last 6 months (it's been like a roller coaster). I called it off. I had just started talking to someone else and my gf, x-gf I should say came to my house and it really got nasty... I hate it happened like that and I like this new girl, but love the x-gf... It's sad it won't work but after constantly fighting I think it's best to just keep pushing forward and staying split up... I kinda feel like I'm using this other chick to get over the x-gf but I think I would go crazy thinking about her.. I know that sounds shitty, but it's the only way I can deal with the break up... I hope when it's over I have no regrets...
 
I should have stopped living like a machine years ago, now I'm caught in a grind and looking for a way out. It's working, though, as I see constant opportunities arise the more I move out of my circle.
 
Thinking too much inside the box in my younger days, made me miss some obvious great opportunities.
 
not drowning my uhhh.. ex fish when i had the chance... would have looked like it just happened..... ohh well .... haha
 
I can't say I have huge regrets. But I have had huge life lessons that has made me who I am today. And those things as bad as they be I have learned from
 
I don't think about shit like regrets - could make ya crazy. Hence, no regrets. :igok:
 
not having the balls to have done some things i should've a looong time ago and a list of other things that all lead to one particular day that changed my entire life forever...i guess carrying around a sack of guilt and feeling i should never truly be happy for the damage i caused could be one big regret,but that can be changed.my past unfortunately cannot.it's what we make of the next day from here on out that really counts...
 
Dawgpound_Hank said:
I don't think about shit like regrets - could make ya crazy. Hence, no regrets. :igok:
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Tons of regrets! I wasted 10 years of my life dropping out of college and running amok drunk all the time. Wish I had stayed in school and stayed out of bars and barfights. Ran over a 300 foot cliff at 23 and they had to cut me out of the car with an acetyline torch. Lucky to be alive now. But Hank hit the nail on the head...dwelling on what could've been and would've been can make you crazy...so I just leave the past in the past and move on.

And on the flip side of the coin....I met my ex in a bar...and if my life had taken a different turn, I wouldn't have my wonderful daughter. ;)
 
That's evidence of either a purposeful God, or a Godly purpose!
Either way a blessing!!
 
My life ......To sum it up, I will say its full of regrets......
Lots of excellent posts up above here and honest answers as well ,but for me this thread isnt long enough for my list .........
I kinda like Darkness answer .....I regret not living my life happier and more easier going .
 
I don't really have any to be honost....outside of probably a few dirty hoes I wasted my time with, and maybe instead of taking 8-9 years of finishing school, I could have done it in 5-6 years...probably more like 6-7 though.

Really, it is good for me right now, though I wish I could make more money...lol:D

I'll have the best gift of my life on my birthday this next year, if my son is born on that day (or anywhere close to it actually), which is what the EDD is.:)
 
I have to say none. Every bad choice I've made in the past helps me to make good choices today.
 
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