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So Wifey is full blown into her change now, seems like its lasting forever... anyway.... we have never needed a lubricant before. We have been looking at some stuff... anybody have a personal favorite or two? And I'd appreciate it if the answers come from her side of things. She is saying that some burn after a bit because of her "sensitive" tissue,,,

Ideas would be great! Thanks
 
Astroglide. Silky smooth, designed for anal. It doesn't dry out like others.
 
Oxytocin and pt 141 are supposed to help post menopausal women in that area, especially for dryness. I had a discussion very recently with my clinic and although this wasn't an issue we're having we covered all bases. This is what they prescribe. Hope that helps.

Also coconut oil is fabulous.

Vitamin D deficiency is also a culprit in women's sex drive. Just learned that one recently as well.
 
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Thanks for the responses so far... right now her drive is good, almost never turns me away and when she does she lets me know that she'd like to but can't. part of the issue for her is she gave me two 9 pound plus kids and so she's fighting with a vaginal prolapse as well.... Thanks B52 will definitely give that a look when it becomes necessary...

Legal..... your solution won't work... unlike you I'd run out of spit before I was done...and mines bigger than a tootsie pop....lol... nothing but love for ya...lmao

haven't tried the astro glide... I'll stop on the way home... Thanks for the tip!
 
A1food4u said:
Thanks for the responses so far... right now her drive is good, almost never turns me away and when she does she lets me know that she'd like to but can't. part of the issue for her is she gave me two 9 pound plus kids and so she's fighting with a vaginal prolapse as well.... Thanks B52 will definitely give that a look when it becomes necessary...

Legal..... your solution won't work... unlike you I'd run out of spit before I was done...and mines bigger than a tootsie pop....lol... nothing but love for ya...lmao

haven't tried the astro glide... I'll stop on the way home... Thanks for the tip!
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Prolapse can be fixed. Rather minor procedure. Look into it.
 
we have bud, hers is non-operable or at least its not the preferred solution as they don't think it will be permanent, because of the thinning of the vaginal tissue, they don't think that the mesh will be held in place, they think it will pull and sag.... right now she's doing a bunch of PT for it, when it gets bad she inverts doing the exercises to pull things back up.

I think eventually it will be the way she goes but right now she's saying she can manage it... she's a tough cookie... I just want her comfortable because I know she'll keep saying yes just to please me
 
A1food4u said:
we have bud, hers is non-operable or at least its not the preferred solution as they don't think it will be permanent, because of the thinning of the vaginal tissue, they don't think that the mesh will be held in place, they think it will pull and sag.... right now she's doing a bunch of PT for it, when it gets bad she inverts doing the exercises to pull things back up.

I think eventually it will be the way she goes but right now she's saying she can manage it... she's a tough cookie... I just want her comfortable because I know she'll keep saying yes just to please me
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Sounds like you have a good one. It's also rough when you know they're just saying yes for you and not really enjoying it themselves. We went through something along those lines and I blew my top after getting shut down a lot. And the times she would do I knew she was only doing it because I wanted to. Talk about a mindfuck. Your mind starts playing all sorts of scenarios. I sent her to the clinic. Come to find out she had a vitamin D deficiency. She also had her thyroid removed from being cancerous and that played a part as well. So she's on 5000iu vitamin D a day and her T4 is in check and she's ready to go whenever now. I had to sympathize with her because my drive sucked for a while, and was struggling in the gym and that's when I decided to see an endo. It was a great decision for both of us.
 
Fuck water. It'll turn her into a slip and slide.... But in all seriousness def worth trying
 
My wife is 67 now. Way past menopause. So from experience hang in there brother. It gets better on the other side. No more menstrual to deal with, and eventually the hormones balance out.
I like motion lotion. It's a flavored lubricant.
Lots of flavors to choose from. In a pinch we use body lotion, but you have to be careful. Some will irritate her. Vaseline intensive care works. But right now we are using an olive oil based skin moisturizer that works really well for both of us. And it doesnt taste bad at all.
But like I said motion lotion. It's my favorite.
 
All my other ones are younger so just their saliva from giving me oral, plus a little pushing from me works with them.
 
I can send some pics of myself to you guys to help your women get a little wetter.
 
Thanks everyone... good to know you can bring up a touchy issue here and get heartfelt help.. and then there's darkness...LOL focker...

It was her idea this morning so I know the drive is still there... thanks for all the advice!!!
 
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Thanks everyone... good to know you can bring up a touchy issue here and get heartfelt help.. and then there's darkness...LOL focker...

It was her idea this morning so I know the drive is still there... thanks for all the advice!!!
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Seriously trt some fuck water. Look it up. Shit is amazing
 
You know how when you make a bull into a steer and you tie off his nuts with a rubber band? Well, the nuts dry up and then fall off. The old lay's twat lips look like that dried up husk just before it falls off. That fukker hasn't had any blood in it for 10 year. No amount of 80 weight differential oil is going to loosen up that seized gearset.
 
KY works well. We don't usually ever need it for sex because vaginal dryness has never been an issue. However,will will use it for touching and massage.
 
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Is she still on estrogen? Estrogen, if it’s too high, can cause dryness.
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yup... she's on an EOD inter vaginal... she's careful to administer it right after I go to work so I don't grow boobs... had no idea on that... it's kind of counter intuitive youd think it would fuel the faucet... go figure
 
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yup... she's on an EOD inter vaginal... she's careful to administer it right after I go to work so I don't grow boobs... had no idea on that... it's kind of counter intuitive youd think it would fuel the faucet... go figure
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I'll give you the number to my clinic of you want to ask some questions. I'm sure they can steer you in the right direction. They deal with it all the time.
 
b52 said:
I'll give you the number to my clinic of you want to ask some questions. I'm sure they can steer you in the right direction. They deal with it all the time.
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Thanks B52... I'd like that.. knowledge is power
 
A1food4u said:
yup... she's on an EOD inter vaginal... she's careful to administer it right after I go to work so I don't grow boobs... had no idea on that... it's kind of counter intuitive youd think it would fuel the faucet... go figure
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That hormone has to be just right and it?s hard to get it there and harder to keep it there. Too much = sexual distinction. Too little = sexual dysfunction.
 
Darkness said:
That hormone has to be just right and it?s hard to get it there and harder to keep it there. Too much = sexual distinction. Too little = sexual dysfunction.
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That's an interesting point as well she seems to go hot and cold about every three or four days in the desire department... I wonder if I can get her to log her use... might be an interesting corollary as she does admit to forgetting to take it now and then, makes me wonder if she's doubling up when she forgets...

Thanks B52 for the pm.... gonna look into that as well
 
A1food4u said:
So Wifey is full blown into her change now, seems like its lasting forever... anyway.... we have never needed a lubricant before. We have been looking at some stuff... anybody have a personal favorite or two? And I'd appreciate it if the answers come from her side of things. She is saying that some burn after a bit because of her "sensitive" tissue,,,

Ideas would be great! Thanks
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Try some olive oil maybe if the chemical ones burn. i really hate products that have chemicals that can damage human tissue especially our beautiful womans tissue...
 
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