is this roid rage or stupid g/f?

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G/f just broke up with me, tells me that she can't handle the fits I throw when I get upset. She really pissed me off the other night, we were supposed to spend new years together at like 1:00 she starts whinning wanting to go out to a club, none of my other friends wanted to go, so i said I can't, she goes fine I'll go myself. I said if you leave it's over, I run after her and tell her she's being ridiculous and needs to come back. she ended up comming back but going to my room and staying there for the rest of the night. Anyways, she broke it off with me today.

It seems like she is always making me choose between my family/friends and her. I mean I make her my priority, but I just needed her to work with me on New Years b/c I had all my family and friends over and couldn't just bounce. Is this a case of roid rage or selfish ass girlfriend?

I am worried it's roid rage, b/c this is the second time I have a g/f break up with me b/c of me fighting "all the time." I honestly feel used and abused b/c I treat my g/f's like queens and I never get anything back. For example, I got my g/f a bunch of shit for christmas and she didn't get me anything at all. When I ask her about it she said she didn't know what to get me. Help me guys, I'm considering getting off the juice, but I don't want it to be for the wrong reasons.
 
are you screaming throwing things or hitting her? if not no shes just a bitch lol you had people over you would have come off like a real ass to just take off with people there. dont get off the juice.. unless you actually believe you are so out of control you cant control your anger.. sure doesnt sound like thats it from this post though
 
Sadie said:
are you screaming throwing things or hitting her? if not no shes just a bitch lol you had people over you would have come off like a real ass to just take off with people there. dont get off the juice.. unless you actually believe you are so out of control you cant control your anger.. sure doesnt sound like thats it from this post though
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No, I wasn't throwing things, but later on in the night I woke her up (after having some drinks , mind you) and I started asking her why she was being like this to me, why she considers me to be selfish when I'm the one that didn't get a christmas present, etc. I mean, I am trying to think of why she would get so upset at me throwing fits after all she causes me to throw them. I would never lay a finger her, I get anxiety attacks when we get into arguments, so it kinda makes me act irrationally sometimes (like calling her a bunch of times, etc.). She likes to detract when we get into arguments and I like to discuss things, so I kinda throw everything at her and she doesn't respond, so then she gets upset that I "throw a fit"
 
that is just not roid or any other kind of rage.. rage is an out of control occurance. when someone is in a RAGE they are going to do things they may normally not do.. juice or not you (or atleast i would) have asked those questions.. that isnt rage its frustration.. sounds like u are better off honestly
 
ExLax said:
G/f just broke up with me, tells me that she can't handle the fits I throw when I get upset. She really pissed me off the other night, we were supposed to spend new years together at like 1:00 she starts whinning wanting to go out to a club, none of my other friends wanted to go, so i said I can't, she goes fine I'll go myself. I said if you leave it's over, I run after her and tell her she's being ridiculous and needs to come back. she ended up comming back but going to my room and staying there for the rest of the night. Anyways, she broke it off with me today.

It seems like she is always making me choose between my family/friends and her. I mean I make her my priority, but I just needed her to work with me on New Years b/c I had all my family and friends over and couldn't just bounce. Is this a case of roid rage or selfish ass girlfriend?

I am worried it's roid rage, b/c this is the second time I have a g/f break up with me b/c of me fighting "all the time." I honestly feel used and abused b/c I treat my g/f's like queens and I never get anything back. For example, I got my g/f a bunch of shit for christmas and she didn't get me anything at all. When I ask her about it she said she didn't know what to get me. Help me guys, I'm considering getting off the juice, but I don't want it to be for the wrong reasons.
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Sounds like your better off bro, hey break ups are a part of life, just as much in non gear users.
 
ExLax said:
G/f just broke up with me, tells me that she can't handle the fits I throw when I get upset. She really pissed me off the other night, we were supposed to spend new years together at like 1:00 she starts whinning wanting to go out to a club, none of my other friends wanted to go, so i said I can't, she goes fine I'll go myself. I said if you leave it's over, I run after her and tell her she's being ridiculous and needs to come back. she ended up comming back but going to my room and staying there for the rest of the night. Anyways, she broke it off with me today.

It seems like she is always making me choose between my family/friends and her. I mean I make her my priority, but I just needed her to work with me on New Years b/c I had all my family and friends over and couldn't just bounce. Is this a case of roid rage or selfish ass girlfriend?

I am worried it's roid rage, b/c this is the second time I have a g/f break up with me b/c of me fighting "all the time." I honestly feel used and abused b/c I treat my g/f's like queens and I never get anything back. For example, I got my g/f a bunch of shit for christmas and she didn't get me anything at all. When I ask her about it she said she didn't know what to get me. Help me guys, I'm considering getting off the juice, but I don't want it to be for the wrong reasons.
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Nah man not rage not you either that was a lame ass excuse for the christmas present thing too "I didn't know what to get you" so she got nothing? I could see all that making you freak out and punch a wall no doubt.
 
THis sounds familar to my situation now and my situation wiht my ex all i can tell u is move on and if it is meant to be it is meant to be. You cannot stand by and let her think that that behavior is acceptable
 
I asked her about it again last night and she said she told her mom to give me something nice. I was even more furious that she fucking put it off on her mom, wtf, she never even tried to tell her moms present was from her too (which it wasn't) her mom just gave me some gift cards and cash). fuck man, why do I always wind up with these kinds of girls.
 
ExLax said:
I asked her about it again last night and she said she told her mom to give me something nice. I was even more furious that she fucking put it off on her mom, wtf, she never even tried to tell her moms present was from her too (which it wasn't) her mom just gave me some gift cards and cash). fuck man, why do I always wind up with these kinds of girls.
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ok that thing is just a bitch.. wtf where id you find this bitch.. was it dark? walk away you could acidently do better then her
 
I am trying not to be spiteful, I mean she is a sweet girl other than her selfish tendencies, but I am pretty pissed. I honestly can't remember one nice/thoughtful thing she ever did for the whole year we dated.
 
then drop her ass cold and go out and have a good time.. ya shes sweet other then completely disreguarding you.. fuck that!
 
my gf does alot of throughtful stuff but i keep getting compared to her low life achy ex and that is not fair. We have been only going out for 9 months though
 
dude if she made you choose between family and friends then shes a bitch your better off without her
 
ExLax said:
I honestly can't remember one nice/thoughtful thing she ever did for the whole year we dated.
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I think you just answered yourself with that. ;) Its a new year...move on, kick the iron and enjoy brutha. :)
 
Roid Rage is an excuse for ppl with shitty attitudes who cant control their tempers. They are assholes off juice and just bigger assholes on juice. in your case ex you seem like a nice guy who is getting played by a girl who doesnt respect you. Move on and life your life bro someone will come along that understands your goals and aspirations in life lata reps
 
ur prob just a weirdo and she just figured it out and was using any excuse to get away from you
 
dude whats this chicks name?? she sounds like some of the twats ive been with!! haha

all jokes aside. i feel your pain. ive been in similiar situations. and believe me its best to just move on. be the adult in the situation and just respectfully go your own way. break ups are never easy. but sometimes its inevidible and for the best. believe me you will feel like a NEW man without her. like hank said, focus on whats important, YOU. hit the gym harder, do whatever it takes to better yourself, and the rest, as far as relationships, will fall into place. dont force them. im not old by any means, but this is what i have learned from some of the fucked up situations ive been through. definately not rage. be respectful, focus on yourself, and in the end shell be the one thats sorry. remember be strong and were all here for you bro.
 
get a better girl. theres 1,000 out there that would want to be with you, just gotta find em.
 
reps said:
Roid Rage is an excuse for ppl with shitty attitudes who cant control their tempers. They are assholes off juice and just bigger assholes on juice.
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While I do agree with this in general, I think there IS some times when it can vary. Example...I'm not an asshole natty haha...I'm a cool mofo with a helluva sense of humor...the clown if you will.lol But sometimes when I run tren, I can get pissed about something that otherwise I would laugh at. Tren is the only gear I have ran that did that.

Example...couple years back, my nigga Nigbo made a small comment about a back pic I posted...I had a fatty cyst on my back for years and all Nigbo did was ask me about it in a post and I got pissed about it and gave him hell in a reply post!LMAO What a dick my jerky ass was...and all coz the tren. I use this example to let Exlax know, theres no WAAAAAAAAAAY I can imagine him having roid rage...considering all the shit we used to give him here about his posing. Never seen him one time post like he was pissed about it. ;)
 
well some things can make you snappy.. i got off nolva right as my eq was peaking.. estrogen rebound+eq+stress made me a fuckin bitch lol but its not like i couldnt control myself physically.. i had a short fuse no doubt but i wasnt to the point where i was out of control.. the only drug i have ever seen to cause anything like roid rage on a typically calm person is halo
 
Hey its a new year man,scrap her ass and start all over...do whats best for you,as the others mentioned...theres plenty of fish out there........Z
 
It is just a case of her being young and immature. She is still very young, wanting to go to clubs, into herself etc., not into even doing something special for a guy. She may not even have enough experience with men to know what a man likes in a woman. I think perhaps she hasnt found in you what she truely seeks. Maybe in time she will find one that she can be more open with and feel like giving her all. Right now she is thinking about herself mainly and someone giving her all of their attention. If you have a close knit family and do alot with them, this may possibly be making her feel that you arent giving her all of that attention she seeks. Knowing this, you could have possibly left some time at New Years to spend with her only, going out. I know it sounds selfish, but this is the kind mentality you are dealing with. If you are willing to devote this special attention to her, and on the same hand giving her freedom to grow, it may work, but from my experience it usually ends up with the girl moving on to someone else because of the lack of experience not only with different men, but in growing as a person.
 
If she thinks you've got roid rage then run some tren for a few weeks, go round to her house in a lumberjack shirt, hockey mask and steel toed boots, carrying a big assed hammer & a chainsaw. smash the place to fuck and, when you're done, tell her "THAT'S ROID RAGE!"
 
Mick-G said:
It is just a case of her being young and immature. She is still very young, wanting to go to clubs, into herself etc., not into even doing something special for a guy. She may not even have enough experience with men to know what a man likes in a woman. I think perhaps she hasnt found in you what she truely seeks. Maybe in time she will find one that she can be more open with and feel like giving her all. Right now she is thinking about herself mainly and someone giving her all of their attention. If you have a close knit family and do alot with them, this may possibly be making her feel that you arent giving her all of that attention she seeks. Knowing this, you could have possibly left some time at New Years to spend with her only, going out. I know it sounds selfish, but this is the kind mentality you are dealing with. If you are willing to devote this special attention to her, and on the same hand giving her freedom to grow, it may work, but from my experience it usually ends up with the girl moving on to someone else because of the lack of experience not only with different men, but in growing as a person.
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You make a good point. I just didn't think it was fair that I went to her family parties and never bitched/complained once. When I asked her to come to my family event, she pulled that BS. When I brought this up to her she said that she never forced me to go. SHe was selfish on many levels, I let her get away with a lot of stuff, and when I asked for simple favors (such as staying at my new years party) she would make a big fuss.
 
HugelyGifted said:
dude whats this chicks name?? she sounds like some of the twats ive been with!! haha

all jokes aside. i feel your pain. ive been in similiar situations. and believe me its best to just move on. be the adult in the situation and just respectfully go your own way. break ups are never easy. but sometimes its inevidible and for the best. believe me you will feel like a NEW man without her. like hank said, focus on whats important, YOU. hit the gym harder, do whatever it takes to better yourself, and the rest, as far as relationships, will fall into place. dont force them. im not old by any means, but this is what i have learned from some of the fucked up situations ive been through. definately not rage. be respectful, focus on yourself, and in the end shell be the one thats sorry. remember be strong and were all here for you bro.
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Thanks for the encouraging words.
 
drop that ho' and never look back..she obviously dont care about u.
 
It sounds like your really hooked on this girl because your trying to say she is a good girl, yet i have not heard one good thing about her from you yet.....Maybe sprung a bit, but it happens, especially if your one to fall hard....If you want me to be completely honest bro, she is walking on you and you are letting it happen....Any time you let this happen it gives her the "ok" to continue this behavior....And guess what? Its your fault for not putting your foot down.... Tell her to forget your number and go away....Be with your family and friends and if she wants to change for the better and you still feel like giving her a chance then go ahead....But first sign of this crap again and drop her for good.....Sounds like a controlling chick, and there is nothing worse than a controlling woman.....Im sure its the same for a woman dealing with a controlling man....No fun at all brotha, and if you let it happen it will only get worse...
 
SAME AS MY SITUATION. BUT IVE MOVE ON.. like whos cares im tryin to pound some muscle to pound some chicks go find another and if u love her well go get back at her
 
Forkboy said:
SAME AS MY SITUATION. BUT IVE MOVE ON.. like whos cares im tryin to pound some muscle to pound some chicks go find another and if u love her well go get back at her
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I bet u have the same situation with all those transexual hookers over by you. I guess they have feeling too.
 
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