O
OLYMPIAN
Guest
BAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA!!!
BAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA!!!
M
mrhtbd
Guest
After being married for 9 years and having played the field for 21, I can honestly say if you don't get along on most things she is just going to make you miserable. Don't look back. It's better not to have a girlfriend in that case.
Get on with your life, but be cordial with her if you see her in public. Be above the bullshit.
Get on with your life, but be cordial with her if you see her in public. Be above the bullshit.
J
-JP-
Guest
OK its def not roid rage you just need help in relationships your acting like the woman not the man in the relationship; where do I begin. I don't have a lot of time tonight but I will try to get out as much as I can. There are really two ways to answer this the player way and just straight shooting 101 on relatioships. I will try and do both. Let me preface all of this by saying how you act should depend on how you feel about her and what you really want out of the relationship. (A real relationship surrenders to each other. One where both parties are committed to working together on the relationship)
There are rules to relationships and things to understand.
Example: She told you she was going out without you and you told her if she did it was over. Wrong you should never give someone you love, care and supposedly trust a ultimatum like that. The relationship answer says that you both should be able do your own thing and have trust in one another.
The player answer says that you should act like you don't care. I will get to why in the next example.
Example 2: You chased after her!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BIG BIG NO NO. On both accounts player or relationships. You never beg or chase after anyone. You shouldn't have to. First off you told her it was over if she left. So you threw all your credibility out the window when you chased after her. If you don't respect yourself no one else will. You can't say something and not follow through. She will walk all over you if you do that. Secondly no woman wants a girly man. You keep someone interested by remaining interesting. You remain interesting by commanding respect. This goes for all relationships.
All of these things go hand in hand. If you act a certain way so will she. You said you treat all your girlfriends like queens. To me that means you are obessive and smothering. Most people do not want that in a significant other. You should respect her and treat her good but not like a baby. Let her do things for you just as much as you do for her. When people put work into something they treasure it more because it means more to them. If you start acting the way I talked about and let her do things for you your relationship will change for the better. There is so much more I could say and get into because of all the different variables but this enough for tonight. If you want me to continue on anther day just let me know. Good luck though bro I hope it works out for you.
There are rules to relationships and things to understand.
Example: She told you she was going out without you and you told her if she did it was over. Wrong you should never give someone you love, care and supposedly trust a ultimatum like that. The relationship answer says that you both should be able do your own thing and have trust in one another.
The player answer says that you should act like you don't care. I will get to why in the next example.
Example 2: You chased after her!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BIG BIG NO NO. On both accounts player or relationships. You never beg or chase after anyone. You shouldn't have to. First off you told her it was over if she left. So you threw all your credibility out the window when you chased after her. If you don't respect yourself no one else will. You can't say something and not follow through. She will walk all over you if you do that. Secondly no woman wants a girly man. You keep someone interested by remaining interesting. You remain interesting by commanding respect. This goes for all relationships.
All of these things go hand in hand. If you act a certain way so will she. You said you treat all your girlfriends like queens. To me that means you are obessive and smothering. Most people do not want that in a significant other. You should respect her and treat her good but not like a baby. Let her do things for you just as much as you do for her. When people put work into something they treasure it more because it means more to them. If you start acting the way I talked about and let her do things for you your relationship will change for the better. There is so much more I could say and get into because of all the different variables but this enough for tonight. If you want me to continue on anther day just let me know. Good luck though bro I hope it works out for you.
