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- Apr 23, 2015
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I am my worse critic and at times it can be stifling. I have always wanted to do more, accomplish more, strive for more and achieve, but have always been devoid of a mentor. Some things I just plain don't know. Fifteen years of college and 23 years construction experience and still can't price a construction job within $4000 (makes me feel stupid). Losing my shirt! Throwing it away for pittance. I acknowledge there are wise persons here, as I have always benefitted from advice, suggestions and direction. On the one hand, there are things that I know; like racing through traffic at 90 miles per hour on my motorcycle, or saying the right thing to my kids when they have doubts, but other things just make me feel lost and remain a wrench in the works for progress. In that right I appear weak and needy in my desire for mentoring advice. A part of me insists I just pull up my bootstraps and forge on in ignorance, but another side reminds me of what my father said to me on his deathbed the day before he died, "______, I could've gotten a lot more done if I'd only had a partner!" That, my friends, is why I tend to bare my weakness to enlist the prospect of a mentor. In that light, I appreciate and respect any advice shared here, positive or negative, as it all has provided much needed direction. As such, I remain humbled in my plight for competency.