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ozzy69

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who here that is married or in a relationship has a piece on the side??

im not saying that i do or intend to but im interested in knowing who does....and be honest, is it worth it? are you scared of losing everything? how do you prevent from getting caught?

over the years i have had numerous opportunities to cheat but only did once and i truly regret it
 
I did it once a few years back, we were going through a real tough time. I was drunk at the time (and it's no excuse) and I did it. I felt real bad instantly and a few weeks later said what I did. I thought I was going to lose the one true person that mattered in my life. I was lucky, other half completely understood why I'd done it and forgave me although I will never be able to forgive myself.
In short, if you love someone why risk losing everything you have just for some dumb fuck on the side.
 
Been married 13 years and haven't cheated, but kissed a girl at a nightclub 3 years ago. It was more for fun than anything, she smelled good.
I think fidelity is important, because otherwise I couldn't leave the house alone without feeling guilty.
Seriously, though, about 7 years ago the wife said, "I know what you're doing, you have a girl shacked up!"
I started cracking up laughing, so she said, "Yeah, that's it!"
I laughed more because it seemed ridiculous (actually, I was in post grad school and spent an inordinant amount of time at the computer lab at college).
The more I laughed the more sure she thought she was right, then I laughed even more because I realized that laughing made me look guilty.
It was hilarious, then, when I could finally speak, I said, "Seriously, ______, I can't even balance my check book and you think I can organize funding for a girl's apartment, utilities, and bills?"
She thought about it a moment then said, "Oh yeah, I guess you're right."
True story, but if you get tied up you can use that tale. (pun intended)
 
Just got busted for it recently. I wasn't happy with the overall experience really. Everytime I was with the other, I'd think about my wife and would go limp or could never finish. Lol

On the other hand, everything is better with us now than it has been. Guess I have too much awesomeness to let go. Ha
 
In past relationships i used to not care and have a few "options" available. It always stressed me out because i didn't want to mess up and confuse the lies i strung together. In the end it was a lot of fun, but gave me headaches so my last girl that i dated for 5 years i didn't stray one bit. I almost cheated on her when i was out of town on business because i knew there was no way i could get caught, but i honestly couldn't do it because i cared for her too much. Maybe i lost my edge as i got older? Not sure, every girl i had when i was younger i cheated on multiple times, but today it doesn't even cross my mind.
 
Same here, in the past when I was younger and having GF's, i'd hit up other women. I'm still not married, but the last few GF's, including the current fiance, i've never cheated on, nor do I feel like doing it at all at this point. I mean, i'm like Frank the Tank checking out the waitresses at Olive Garden and wondering what kind of panties they are wearing (odds are basic white cotton), or a few of the girls at the gym or at work....but that is it....well, and basskiller's avi pics:D
 
Gonna try and make a long story short but I did about 4-5 years ago and got away with it for a year and a half but the bitch fell in love and became a stalked. Woke up in the middle of the night to my phone being rammed in my face and my wife screaming "who's pussy is this because its not mine" unfortunately after I finished laughing I was in for the worst month of my life. When it happened me and my old lady weren't getting along worth a fuck but the relationship had drastically improved up till I got caught. Now days it truly is the perfect marriage and I truly could never possibly ask for more but I guess we had to go through that to understand what we meant to each other. I had no clue what I had t8ll it was damn near gone. I was truly blessed at the end result of my infidelity but I god damn sure wouldn't recommend taking the risk. Just remember you almost always eventually get caught. From talking in your sleep to seeing seeing the bitch in the grocery store with ur wife and kids in tow.
 
Got cheated on by my ex-wife & from that pain I knew I wouldn't do it to another person.
 
Shovel said:
Just got busted for it recently. I wasn't happy with the overall experience really. Everytime I was with the other, I'd think about my wife and would go limp or could never finish. Lol

On the other hand, everything is better with us now than it has been. Guess I have too much awesomeness to let go. Ha
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So was the other guy real sad that you couldn't cum?
 
I've had plenty of chances but I would never do it simply because I wouldn't want to be done that way myself and I know how it would hurt me. So I always keep that in mind whenever the option has popped up.. Needless to say I wouldn't be able to sleep at nights if I did!
 
Back in my coke dealing days I cheated several times almost every day. I had three girlfriends on the side I was taking care of and several others who I would party with on occassion.
At the time it was like a game.
But when I went to prison the second time and my old lady was the only one there for me I knew it was never worth it again to hurt her like I used to.
For me any more, it's just not worth it.
I have been tempted greatly a few times, Shovel knows about one haitian honey, but in the end, I love my old lady.
 
nope. I got married for a reason. If I needed pussy on the side I would get rid of my old lady first! haha but I have plenty of co workers who do! its a shame though
 
bufbiker said:
Back in my coke dealing days I cheated several times almost every day. I had three girlfriends on the side I was taking care of and several others who I would party with on occassion.
At the time it was like a game.
But when I went to prison the second time and my old lady was the only one there for me I knew it was never worth it again to hurt her like I used to.
For me any more, it's just not worth it.
I have been tempted greatly a few times, Shovel knows about one haitian honey, but in the end, I love my old lady.
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What ever happened with that? Lol
 
She quit as my secretary and went to fire fighters/emt school. haven't heard from her in a few months, since around Christmas last time.
 
bufbiker said:
She quit as my secretary and went to fire fighters/emt school. haven't heard from her in a few months, since around Christmas last time.
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That was 7 months ago........if she calls you in a couple of months don't pick up.
 
Was married for more than 15 years. Never once thought about cheating on the wifey. ;)
 
I have alot of uneasiness right now, since Ozzy changed his sig and made this thread on the same day. I feel watched....
 
although I look and think, I can't do it to her. Screwing people over is not in my nature and I would be guilt ridden forever.
 
alluprbdy said:
thank god I'm not married yet, life is too long for one vagina.
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I read alot of your posts when you post and never really comment , And as much as I would like to think im growing up ..
MY GOD this statement IS SO TRUE !!!!!!lol^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 
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