Random Question for the Guys

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Hey guys (and gals!), Just had a random question...

Do guys like it when girls hit on them? I mean, like obviously hitting on them and/or using "lines"?

The reason I ask is because I know how much I HATE it when guys approach me with stupid lines, whether they're cute or not. But sometimes when I see a hot guy I think to myself, "damn, I don't know how to approach him without it sounding like a line or actually being a line". Sometimes I just want to be totally blunt and be like, "hey you're fine as all hell, can I buy you a drink?" Would that be a total turn off?

I don't date much, and I don't randomly approach hot guys, but every now and then a hottie a the club or gym will catch my eye.

Guys, how do you like to be approached by women?
 
i dont mind...
long as she's not a heffer with cheese. lmfao..
 
nikhi19 said:
Hey guys (and gals!), Just had a random question...

Do guys like it when girls hit on them? I mean, like obviously hitting on them and/or using "lines"?

The reason I ask is because I know how much I HATE it when guys approach me with stupid lines, whether they're cute or not. But sometimes when I see a hot guy I think to myself, "damn, I don't know how to approach him without it sounding like a line or actually being a line". Sometimes I just want to be totally blunt and be like, "hey you're fine as all hell, can I buy you a drink?" Would that be a total turn off?

I don't date much, and I don't randomly approach hot guys, but every now and then a hottie a the club or gym will catch my eye.

Guys, how do you like to be approached by women?
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That line you just said would work just fine, I think we guys appreciate a certain amount of directness.
 
I loved hitting on women. Ahhh memories, hmmm

Go up to him and start a conversation. If he?s not keen on you, he won?t carry the conversation through. (had to ask a guy here at work LOL). Apparently guys aren?t into lines (well the ones here I suppose).
 
When I was single, I could appreciate the direct and aggressive approach of a woman.
 
All depends on the guy. Some guys like it and some don't. Personally, something like that would be a turn off to me. I'd rather someone just come up and say something like "Hey, my name's Nikhi." If a guy is interested at all, they will respond to that and take it from there. I think in any situation, male or female, a simple introduction like that is enough to get a conversation started if both parties are interested. There doesn't need to be any cheesy, romantic, funny, stupid, etc. lines used. Of course, some people are the exact opposite of me and would prefer a line to be used.
 
i think it is a big turn on when i get hit on, but i also like the direct approach both would well for me
 
I think a guy would appreciate it whatever way you approached him, so long as he isn't the one having to do the work for once. So much pressure is put on guys to be the one to make the approach, that its great to have a woman who is confident enough to do it herself.
 
nikhi19 said:
Hey guys (and gals!), Just had a random question...

Do guys like it when girls hit on them? I mean, like obviously hitting on them and/or using "lines"?

The reason I ask is because I know how much I HATE it when guys approach me with stupid lines, whether they're cute or not. But sometimes when I see a hot guy I think to myself, "damn, I don't know how to approach him without it sounding like a line or actually being a line". Sometimes I just want to be totally blunt and be like, "hey you're fine as all hell, can I buy you a drink?" Would that be a total turn off?

I don't date much, and I don't randomly approach hot guys, but every now and then a hottie a the club or gym will catch my eye.

Guys, how do you like to be approached by women?
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I bounce at a bar and I get that shit all the time. Some girls are flat out creepy. I had one just stand in front of me and just stare, til I finally asked her if I could help her. She said I just wanted to talk. Then why the hell did u stare you creep???

Then I get the arm grabs and the oh please flex for me. I have this thing about being touched by people I dont know. makes me really uncomfortable whether the girl is hot or not, just creeps me out.

I prefer the more civil approach of a hello and introduction. If the line is done with a certain amt of tongue in cheek then I laugh. but if its serious I just lose interest immediately.
 
I am very direct, honest and real as it gets. if i got something to say i say it. if i see someone i want i let them know in a classy way..
i wont be pyscho stalker crap but if i see a hot guy i sure as hell will walk up and intro myself to him and usually make him laugh cause i am a goofball. haha
if he is an ass and cant joke then i walk off. gotta have a sense of humor with me.
 
Niki,

The first time I have a good looking girl hit on me, I'll let you know if I like it.


I suspect that I will


(You can feel free to hit on me Niki)
 
GenePool said:
I bounce at a bar and I get that shit all the time. Some girls are flat out creepy. I had one just stand in front of me and just stare, til I finally asked her if I could help her. She said I just wanted to talk. Then why the hell did u stare you creep???

Then I get the arm grabs and the oh please flex for me. I have this thing about being touched by people I dont know. makes me really uncomfortable whether the girl is hot or not, just creeps me out.

I prefer the more civil approach of a hello and introduction. If the line is done with a certain amt of tongue in cheek then I laugh. but if its serious I just lose interest immediately.
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Ohmigosh, I'm right there with you with the strange people touching me! That's why I don't go out alot cuz guys think they can just grab your arm, or your stomach (I HATE THAT). I've decked more than a couple guys at clubs for touching me.

I just remember the last time I was out I saw this guy who was a total Vin Diesel look alike (and I'm hot for Vin) and I saw him looking at me, and I was scoping him out, but neither of us approached the other. I thought about going up and just saying hi, but I thought that would be lame, and I didn't want to get rejected. So I didn't say anything. :(

So, Mike, can I buy you a drink? ;)
 
I wonder if there is a female version of whip it out...

Something to ponder i guess.
 
lol it usually takes me about 24 hours to realize i was being hit on.
 
TolVlo said:
lol it usually takes me about 24 hours to realize i was being hit on.
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Usually I never realize it. Unless someone physically says that she was hitting on me... Even then

My perception sucks!
 
Just be direct, honest, and a LITTLE (dont go overboard) flirtatious.

OR, if you catch a dude staring more than once and you think he's hot, you can always walk by him, like on your way to the restroom or somewhere else and say "You know, it's rude to stare if you aren't going to atleast speak to me" LOL...

I'm with you and Tim on the touching thing, I cannot stand to be touched and have my space all invaded, just creepy.
 
hey nicole!

i love it when a woman makes a pass at me, no matter if i'm interested... because i'm thoroughly flattered. tell your friends, it's okay. :)
 
I'd love it (if I were single) for a girl to be blunt and to the point, because women are so hard to read, no need to beat around the bush, just get to the point!
 
there is blunt and classy and blunt and piggish. Sexuality is fine, but at least friggin intro yourself and dont come across as a total ass. we (at least I) look at it as pathetic much like women look at men as pathetic trying the same approach
 
I hardly ever notice that a woman is hitting on me, I normally get "Dude, she was totally hitting on you". I think a "hi, I'm nikhi" or any other honest approach would work for me. I normally would laugh if a woman used a line, I would think she was joking...
 
GenePool said:
there is blunt and classy and blunt and piggish. Sexuality is fine, but at least friggin intro yourself and dont come across as a total ass. we (at least I) look at it as pathetic much like women look at men as pathetic trying the same approach
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Well said.

You (generally speaking) can flirt and be sexy without going over board and you can be honest and confident without acting like trash.
 
It'd be great for a chick to make the first move. And yeah, i'd prefer the "Hi, i'm Nikki" approach. Aight, i gotta get goin, more to come later.
 
TolVlo said:
lol it usually takes me about 24 hours to realize i was being hit on.
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LOL! It usually takes me 24 hours to realize I have hit on someone! Too funny!!! In all seriousness, I am direct and very open and the guy will know what I want in about 20 seconds. I am very upfront and waste no one's time. Life's too short, you either like or not. But the best are my "drunk" hit on's when I wake up the next day and my cell phone is flooded with texts/calls from who ever the hell I thought looked good to me after about 2-3drinks. Enough said...
 
I don't mind being hit on. Usually i just take it as being friendly because the girls in high school im around apparently still think guys have cooties.
 
Ok where to start. I never got hit on much, or atleast not that I care to remember. If I am not interested I don't pay attention to anything you do or say. Most of the time I got introduced through a friend (3rd grade style) or I make the move myself.

Touching - never been grabbed myself so no opinion but while in college (freshman year) I didn't touch stomachs, I grabbed asses ( I am so going to hear if from Emily now..)
The idea of a girl making the first move is a big, big confidence booster for guyy, so if you are interested just say hello. Most guys are afraid of denial aswell and won't talk to yuo for that one reason. So if he is checking you out, either he s interested, or attached and just thinks you are hot!
 
I like it when a girl that is fine as hell hits on me. It sucks when you are not into them at first glance at all. I base it totally off of how they look. I'm not out partying to get to know somene or want to know how they feel about certain subjects though. I like to flirt back, practice my game or really just charm them in general. I most likely will not buy them a drink though. There are plenty of other dudes that will. If I don't, she will remember that and might be a little curious about me. If not, that's cool. There are a lot of them out there ;)
 
mikeyb said:
Touching - never been grabbed myself so no opinion but while in college (freshman year) I didn't touch stomachs, I grabbed asses ( I am so going to hear if from Emily now...
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LMAO!!! Nah, you were a freshman in college, I don't know many 18-19 year olds that wouldn't do this kind of thing. I can't really hold it against you when it's THAT long ago.

You'd hear it if that's how you made a move NOW, just not back then. Even I have my "what the hell was I thinking" moments from bars and whatnot.
 
TolVlo said:
lol it usually takes me about 24 hours to realize i was being hit on.
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With me I usually don't realize I'm being hit on until my Fiance kicks my ass and tells me someone was hitting on me...
 
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