Real Dilemma

zeke

zeke

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Ok my brotha, got an issue, so give me your thoughts. My girl tells me Sunday she thinks I'm texting someone, not being faithful and I'm like well to make you feel being here's my phone... So she goes through it finds a text from me and a friend which is a girl. Now this girl is hott, but we are just friends. We've had opportunities to mess around but just don't because we are friends. So the text messages goes like this.. I'm thinking about taking something this summer to help me... So I'm like yea we can talk about your supplement intake but send me a pic of your boobs. Better yet, send entire body shot.. She was asking about injects and I said I'll stick you in the ass... I know it sounds bad but like I said. It's all just friendly bullshit and we are just kidding. Of course now my girl thinks we are screwing and wants me to end my friendship with her. I love my girl. We have been together for 4 years and I really want this to work... I'm sure you guys will flame me on this one, but do want to hear what you guys have to say. Even better top patch things up...
 
If I were her reading that text I'd think you were trying to get laid. Maybe you were just joking but...

Happy times ahead for you.
 
If I read the text, I would think that you're sticking your dick in the other girls ass or at least asking to.
 
You want that titty chick. Seriously, you have to be more cleaver with your flirting. in other words, don't shit on the plate you eat off of.
 
I think your only play here is for all of you to get together and talk it out. At that moment go for it all and try to get them both.
 
Hmmmmmmnnn.....Interesting .We all have been in this situation in one way or another,
Option 1 - do as she says and swallow your pride.
Option 2 - Do as she says and swallow your pride.
Option 3- Talk your girlfriend into a 3 some and invite over the booby chick to play
 
OHHHHH!

OHHHHH!

BikerTrash said:
Hmmmmmmnnn.....Interesting .We all have been in this situation in one way or another,
Option 1 - do as she says and swallow your pride.
Option 2 - Do as she says and swallow your pride.
Option 3- Talk your girlfriend into a 3 some and invite over the booby chick to play
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Willi can't say much...but...this is a brilliant answer.

Ok...I'll say something....Women are always looking....as Ive said before...I'd hire them all to work for the Police Department in ivestigations.

They are always looking to find shit and you have given her shit to find. Not going to flame u bro...we've all done that. Option one: Pic one and dump one. Option Two: say: Hey! Im an adult. I can be friends with who I want....nothing is going on....end of story.
Other options...see above.

Good Luck bro.
 
Just ask yourself how you would feel if she situation was the opposite.. If you had found the text on her phone about a dude poking her in the ass you would be mad too!! I know I would.. I try not to do shit I wouldn't want mine to do to me and being married as long as I have mine knows I won't cheat but she still stays jealous when she sees girls checking me out!
 
All I can add is stop saving texts, especially ones like that. There's no reason to save a text unless you need it for work.
 
Speaking from my own experience on this....your fucked end it cuz it will only get worse now
 
Freezerdude said:
Just ask yourself how you would feel if she situation was the opposite.. If you had found the text on her phone about a dude poking her in the ass you would be mad too!! I know I would.. I try not to do shit I wouldn't want mine to do to me and being married as long as I have mine knows I won't cheat but she still stays jealous when she sees girls checking me out!
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BIngo, it is always better to try to understand by putting yourself in the others shoes. That is hard for some to do, but honestly, there is no need to be texting this girl, iimo. Sounds like there is to much temptation and that is best to sdtay away from
 
Thanks for the advice guys. We aren't broken up and she knows the girl well. I did delete the other girl because I do love my girl very much. You guys may not believe that but I do... This is where joking around back fired and yes I'm a dumbass for not deleting it...

Thanks for the feedback, I greatly appreciate it...
 
She's called me every morning since, so it'll be fine... I hope!! She stays with me Thursday-sat. night so tomorrow night will be the test.....

And there's no doubt I'll pay for it (I feel a beach trip coming up)!!!!
 
Man I have been there. I hope things get better for you too. I would weigh out which girl you want to be with. If its your lady then stop talking to the other girl and stay with your lady. If its tits chick then go for that and let your lady go so she can try and be happy. 4 years is a lot of time to invest into someone so honesty at that point should be exactly honest. Even if it hurts honesty is key. Like I said hope things get better for you. Oh and things with your lady will get worse before they get better. If you are going to text like that erase them or dont text like that at all. She will go through your phone and other stuff too. You have given her a reason to not trust you now, so its on you to earn that trust back bro.
 
The other chick is just a friend seriously.. We could have many times but don't won't to mess up a friendship... I know that may sound like bullshit but it's not... I truly love my girl.. But last night was the test and it went fantastic so I'm all good... Stayed with her last night and she is spending the rest of the week with me... I'm relieved!!!

Thanks to all for the help ;-)
 
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