she wants to have a talk

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Asked the wife what the weekend was all about?
She replied she wanted to talk.
We've been getting along lately.
The kids will go to their grandparents on Saturday so we can have a heart-to-heart.
She might want to reconcile, don't know.
I'm pretty sure the guy is now out of the picture since I sent a message to his wife.
Still moving forward with the purchase of the other house.
No sense going this far and keeping my options open, but I will listen to what she has to say.
The kids are young and I like being around them.
On the plus side she lost 6 dress sizes and looks great.
We'll see.
 
Once a cheater alwsys a cheater.....Adultry isnt a forgivable action once caught.
I understand the kid thing though.
although keep in mind she lost 6 dress sizes for another man.
My opinion is get the fuck out.
 
She may try to manipulate you for as much resources as possible while she makes the change out into single life. That and children. women are most concerned with resources and children in a crisis.
 
Title of this thread: "Cutting off my Nutsack and labeling it Forgiveness"

That way when there's a post in a week that we are a couple again and I am going back to the woman who ignored me for years, you all can try to be convinced that it was because I have a big heart, and the woman who fucked me with her arms crossed has changed. And I have changed too.
 
Darkness said:
Title of this thread: "Cutting off my Nutsack and labeling it Forgiveness"

That way when there's a post in a week that we are a couple again and I am going back to the woman who ignored me for years, you all can try to be convinced that it was because I have a big heart, and the woman who fucked me with her arms crossed has changed. And I have changed too.
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Ha I never saw that position.
 
She cheated. There is nothing more to say,if you forgive her and you deserve what you get.

All the best
 
She was a size 12, now she is a size 6.
Good point, she lost it for another man.
I can't so easily forget how she deliberately tried to make me jump so she could have all the beans.
Now I think this may be a ploy to get her mitts on the other house.
Greedy side-stepping bitch.
She even invited a few couples over tomorrow night after the Fall Fest at the elementary school to soften me up, only problem is, the tears aren't affecting me as much, because just a week ago she was taunting me saying, "The divorce papers say you are dependant on me."
I read them over several times, they say nothing of the kind.
She is afraid to lose all the money she squandered from the marriage over the years to pay herself, and now she will have to produce what she did with the money.
I imagine a bit to her brother, some to her friend, a little to her mother and father, etc., all for safe-keeping until I am out of the way so she can gather it again and continue being the cheating whore she is.
How's that?
Do you think I've about got it right this time?
 
get out and dont look back! you can still be a great dad even if your not married!

it almost sounds like that you like this type of mind fucking she keeps giving you

we have giving you advice for months and you dont seem to want to listen to any of it--have you ever given any thought to the fact to some of us have gone through the shit youre going through?

man i like you so its time to put on your big boy underpants move out find a woman that really makes you feel good and start a new life---dont live in the past life is way too short to be miserable forever
 
Tell her the only way you'll take her back is a foursome with her, her sister and her mother.
 
Cool, and I just received news my mortgage was approved for the other property.
Closing date is December 7th, that means move in date by February 7, 2013.
It has to have repairs before moving in, roof and water hook-up to the county line. In due time.
 
mrhtbd said:
Cool, and I just received news my mortgage was approved for the other property.
Closing date is December 7th, that means move in date by February 7, 2013.
It has to have repairs before moving in, roof and water hook-up to the county line. In due time.
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SMART MAN< Stick to your guns!
 
dont go back to her or she will be gettign your new house as well lol
 
She offered to "go out to dinner, or," she said, "I could make ______ here" (some fatty shit I never liked anyway).
I said, "No, I already ate, just what is it that you want?
She hemmed and hawwed, sat down, then asked, "Well, since we've been getting along and stuff, do you still want to get divorced?"
I said, "Well, considering you've been manipulating me for over ten years, and you've been cheating on me for who knows how long, then yes, I still want the divorce."
Then I said, "I mean, look at this place, practically all my stuff is in the garage and the basement." "Most of it never even came out of the boxes, So we are going through with the Divorce."
Told her, "The mortgage was approved, I don't need any money from our estate to buy the house, and the bank should get the needed repairs done hopefully by Christmas, so I should move out by the middle of January, or February 7th by the latest."
Short and sweet, then I went to the in-laws to pick up my kids by 6:30.
Her father answered the door, said, "I thought they were staying until 10PM?"
I said, "No, we're done over there, come-on, kids, let's go!"
I took them to Best Buy and then to see a movie.
We watched some TV together when we got home.
It was a Dad-movie and there was no complaints.
Sick of watching the Disney Channel anyway.
These kids need to be with me, that's all there is to it.
They need a man in there lives with a dog.
I told her I want them the first day of trout and bow season.
She said, "What about school?"
I told her, "Fishing and huntiing are school!"
 
NOW YOUR GETTING YOUR BALLS BACK OLD MAN ,,,,,, ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Oh yeh ,,,,doing the happy dance for ya fella......be strong ,stand your ground and leave .
 
There may yet be hope left for you in the ball department....please follow thru with what you said...do it for you!
 
BikerTrash said:
Once a cheater alwsys a cheater.....Adultry isnt a forgivable action once caught.
I understand the kid thing though.
although keep in mind she lost 6 dress sizes for another man.
My opinion is get the fuck out.
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this as well^^^^^

.get a lawyer ready women know they have all the power when it comes to things like this.make sure to keep as much dirt on her as possible that can be proven in court because you may need it
 
just read over the other things you posted.very good choice I wish you the best if you ever need any advice or words of encouragement or just need to talk my pm box is always open.
 
Do not take her back. Get the hell away from her as soon as possible. Don't let her manipulate you, she'll just fuck you over again and again.
 
mrhtbd said:
She offered to "go out to dinner, or," she said, "I could make ______ here" (some fatty shit I never liked anyway).
I said, "No, I already ate, just what is it that you want?
She hemmed and hawwed, sat down, then asked, "Well, since we've been getting along and stuff, do you still want to get divorced?"
I said, "Well, considering you've been manipulating me for over ten years, and you've been cheating on me for who knows how long, then yes, I still want the divorce."
Then I said, "I mean, look at this place, practically all my stuff is in the garage and the basement." "Most of it never even came out of the boxes, So we are going through with the Divorce."
Told her, "The mortgage was approved, I don't need any money from our estate to buy the house, and the bank should get the needed repairs done hopefully by Christmas, so I should move out by the middle of January, or February 7th by the latest."
Short and sweet, then I went to the in-laws to pick up my kids by 6:30.
Her father answered the door, said, "I thought they were staying until 10PM?"
I said, "No, we're done over there, come-on, kids, let's go!"
I took them to Best Buy and then to see a movie.
We watched some TV together when we got home.
It was a Dad-movie and there was no complaints.
Sick of watching the Disney Channel anyway.
These kids need to be with me, that's all there is to it.
They need a man in there lives with a dog.
I told her I want them the first day of trout and bow season.
She said, "What about school?"
I told her, "Fishing and huntiing are school!"
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They sure do, too bad they only got you and her.

Lol next whiny post in 3 ... 2 ... 1 ..
 
This thread reminds me of all the times (countless since puberty) I was invited for one last talk and, whether that day or the next couple days, ended up covered in creamy vaginal discharge and a continuation of misery.
 
I'm working on becoming the man I left at the alter.
Who travelled the world on a whim, saught the seas for fun and frolicking, and drove a Porsche he rebuilt from a hulk pulled out of a farmer's field with a tractor.
Yes, to become that man again, to pick up where he left off, knowing what I know now, would be a true blessing.
Best of all, I've got kids that can surf the tide and come along for the ride to one day be themselves as well.
That, is a goal worth striving for.
Oh yeah, and the meeting was rescheduled for tomorrow, so fired, suspended or reprimended, we shall see.
 
Back to the days where pussys looked like whoopi Goldberg's Afro in direct from broadway in 1985.
Your previous life sounds like mine. Traveling the world out of a suitcase. Haven't been home in 6 months..
 
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