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wallyd

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I’m from a small town in the Midwest, population of about 2500 residents. My town & surrounding small towns are dealing with a tragedy this week. I know some board members are within an hour of my home town, I ask if you heard about this in any way please don’t disclose the location.




Saturday August 10 sometime around 9-10 pm there was a horrible accident on one of the highways that leads to my home town. My 32 year old cousin & her 5 year old son came up on an incident that had the highway shut down. She was in line with many other vehicles just waiting to get past the incident & get home.




As she sat in traffic with her flashers on & doing a top speed of roughly 6 mph a foreigner driving a semi is traveling towards the incident. He has his windows tinted extremely dark & is watching tv or something similar in his truck. He hits my cousins vehicle at 75 mph smashing her between his semi & the one stopped in front of her. He also manages to kill another women that was in a different vehicle.




Thursday was the wake. When I say the funeral home was packed that’s an understatement. People were parking in every spot they could find. Pharmacy lots, child care facility, I found a spot at a car wash. The line filled the chapel, down the hall & started filling another chapel. It was the biggest show of support I have ever seen.




A local bar/restaurant had made a fb post saying he was donating a percent of all sales to help with expenses. He does this for different things, he has done this to pay off school lunches for families that just can’t afford it as an example.




Just to show our support and to thank this man 7 family members met up to eat at this restaurant. The owner found out who we were, I’m the only one he had met before & came back to offer his condolences. He asked if we needed anything. Of course he checked on our food & drink but he honestly was asking if we were “ok” ourselves. He came back again & offered to cater an event they had set up for her family on the house.




This morning he asked me to come to the restaurant & pick up the check for my cousin. I honestly couldn’t be any more proud to be from this small town. I can’t wait to draw my pension & move back. If any of you can relate you already know small town are just different.
 
Bitter sweet.. hate to hear something like this but the way the town pulled together.. man, you don’t find that stuff very often. I moved my family to a smaller city 15 years ago and now in my older age we are about to move to a small town. I want to retire somewhere with people like you’ve described here.
 
Bitter sweet.. hate to hear something like this but the way the town pulled together.. man, you don’t find that stuff very often. I moved my family to a smaller city 15 years ago and now in my older age we are about to move to a small town. I want to retire somewhere with people like you’ve described here.

It really is a nice little town. If you drive down the road people wave as you pass wether they know you or not. I’m just done with the city life & seeing how t people have pulled together this weekend has made my desire to move back here even more.
 
Sorry for your loss man. A town like that sounds nice. It's just not like that where I'm from. I've only imagined places like that but it's good to know towns like that actually exist.
 
So sorry about your loss, such a tragedy. I’m from a major city and as you can imagine, we don’t see that type of community support. We also own in Mexico and the people are so supportive and caring. It’s crazy how massively different the culture is from area to area, and I often wonder how we got to be as screwed up as we are in much of the country. And sadly, I don’t think I see things ever going back to when we were just decent to each other and cared. Nice to see that there are still places like this in the country.
 
My condolences. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I live in a small town in the Midwest, and the way the community comes together in times of need is truly beautiful to witness. I recently lost my father, so I understand what you're going through, man. You can always send me a message or email if you need someone to talk to and keep your mind off things and bullshit with. S.P. Pharmacy is here for you anytime you need brother :)

S.P. Pharmacy
 
My condolences. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I live in a small town in the Midwest, and the way the community comes together in times of need is truly beautiful to witness. I recently lost my father, so I understand what you're going through, man. You can always send me a message or email if you need someone to talk to and keep your mind off things and bullshit with. S.P. Pharmacy is here for you anytime you need brother :)

S.P. Pharmacy

Sorry for the loss of your father. That one will be so much worse for me when that day arrives. Thanks for reaching out, small towns are just wired differently. A different mind set about the important things.
 
My wife inherited a little house in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. There are some houses, a flashing yellow light, a school for the entire county, a grocery store, hardware store, gas station, and a bar/restaurant. Volunteer Fire Department. One cop for the entire county, who everybody knows, who everybody waves to at the fourth of July tractor parade. You pump your gas on an old fashioned pump, then go inside and tell the lady how much you put in and pay her. She will probably offer you a cookie if she made any that morning.

Definitely very cool place. Like America used to be.
 
I’m from a small town in the Midwest, population of about 2500 residents. My town & surrounding small towns are dealing with a tragedy this week. I know some board members are within an hour of my home town, I ask if you heard about this in any way please don’t disclose the location.




Saturday August 10 sometime around 9-10 pm there was a horrible accident on one of the highways that leads to my home town. My 32 year old cousin & her 5 year old son came up on an incident that had the highway shut down. She was in line with many other vehicles just waiting to get past the incident & get home.




As she sat in traffic with her flashers on & doing a top speed of roughly 6 mph a foreigner driving a semi is traveling towards the incident. He has his windows tinted extremely dark & is watching tv or something similar in his truck. He hits my cousins vehicle at 75 mph smashing her between his semi & the one stopped in front of her. He also manages to kill another women that was in a different vehicle.




Thursday was the wake. When I say the funeral home was packed that’s an understatement. People were parking in every spot they could find. Pharmacy lots, child care facility, I found a spot at a car wash. The line filled the chapel, down the hall & started filling another chapel. It was the biggest show of support I have ever seen.




A local bar/restaurant had made a fb post saying he was donating a percent of all sales to help with expenses. He does this for different things, he has done this to pay off school lunches for families that just can’t afford it as an example.




Just to show our support and to thank this man 7 family members met up to eat at this restaurant. The owner found out who we were, I’m the only one he had met before & came back to offer his condolences. He asked if we needed anything. Of course he checked on our food & drink but he honestly was asking if we were “ok” ourselves. He came back again & offered to cater an event they had set up for her family on the house.




This morning he asked me to come to the restaurant & pick up the check for my cousin. I honestly couldn’t be any more proud to be from this small town. I can’t wait to draw my pension & move back. If any of you can relate you already know small town are just different.

Sorry for your loss brother ! I think we are from the same small town or nearby . Prayers to your family brother
 
Just an update another restaurant is donating proceeds off of sales next Thursday . A butcher shop is selling raffle tickets for a nice Blackstone grill with proceeds going to the family. Another local business provided the venue & catered for a dinner after the funeral. The people just keep coming out from everywhere showing support!
 
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Small towns are not exempt from tragedy. Last week in a small town close to my town, less than a 2500 population. A 31 year old 100 pound woman was abducted from the community park. The State Police arn't releasing much information right now, but they said it was a forceful abduction. It's been a week, I suspect that may not find this tiny little woman alive. It's very sad.
 
Small towns are not exempt from tragedy. Last week in a small town close to my town, less than a 2500 population. A 31 year old 100 pound woman was abducted from the community park. The State Police arn't releasing much information right now, but they said it was a forceful abduction. It's been a week, I suspect that may not find this tiny little woman alive. It's very sad.

So sad. The ones that pray on women & children are the worst imo.
 

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