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guys i got a question. say u have a girlfriend...been dating for about a yr and a half and she goes from screwing u every nite to maybe once every couple of months, she doesnt really like ur friends and gets ill when u are hangin out with them on time when u could be hangin out with her, never wants to do the things u like to do but expects u to do all the shit that she likes to do, and says u dont treat her like a real gf but in reality u tell her often that she is beautiful and that u love her and u take her out to eat every weekend, and kiss her, and hold her hand and yatta yatta yatta...
but really u love her and its ur own fault that u have let her get away with treatin u like this bc u have focused so hard on tryin to make her happy.
then all of a sudden there is this other hot chick, equally as hot as ur gf, that is actually related to ur best friend (sister in law) who wouldnt care if u hang out with ur friends bc she hangs out with all ur friends and doesnt wanna be all up ur ass and isnt a bitch...but she flirts with u a little bit and u just cant tell if she likes u. plus she is not gonna give it up til she knows u are commited to her and arent gonna do her wrong. do u leave what u have that may or may not can be fixed for the other girl. i mean this new chick does shit like: we will be texting back and forth and in mid conversation she will just abandon me lol and one min we will be talkin in person and she will be all flirty and in just seconds she quits acting that way...
guys i do love my present gf but im so tired of fussing, and not being good enough, and not gettin any...but at the same time is the grass any greener on the other side? what would u all do? im fuckin confused...
 
You young guys don't know the meaning of the word "love." You mean you "like" your girlfriend, because if you were truly in love you wouldn't have enough doubts to consider a new fling. Ask yourself which one you would rather spend the rest of your life with, and go from there. If you are having problems now, the problems you describe usually get worse and not better. Just don't go out with both of them at the same time. Not because they would find out (they would), but because I know you're better than that that. ;)
 
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Rocky07 said:
guys i got a question. say u have a boyfriend...been dating for about a yr and a half :kiss:and he goes from screwing u every nite to maybe once every couple of months, he doesnt really like ur friends and gets ill when u are hangin out with them on time when u could be hangin out with him, never wants to do the things u like to do but expects u to do all the shit that he likes to do, and says u dont treat him like a real bf but in reality u tell him often that he is handsome and that u love him and u take him out to eat every weekend, and kiss him, and hold his hand and yatta yatta yatta...
but really u love him :kiss:and its ur own fault that u have let him get away with treatin u like this bc u have focused so hard on tryin to make him happy.
then all of a sudden there is this other hot dude, :kiss:equally as hot as ur bf, that is actually related to ur best friend (sister in law) who wouldnt care if u hang out with ur friends bc he hangs out with all ur friends and doesnt wanna be all up ur ass and isnt a bitch...but he flirts with u a little bit and u just cant tell if he likes u. plus he is not gonna give it up til he knows u are commited to him and arent gonna do him wrong. do u leave what u have that may or may not can be fixed for the other boy. i mean this new dude does shit like: we will be texting back and forth and in mid conversation he will just abandon me lol and one min we will be talkin in person and he will be all flirty and in just seconds he quits acting that way...
guys i do love my present bf :kiss: but im so tired of fussing, and not being good enough, and not gettin any...but at the same time is the grass any greener on the other side? what would u all do? im fuckin confused...
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Rocky I just couldn't help myself:anana::naughty:.

jking with you Brother
 
LEAVE HER...john benz with all do respect... how many women did you date before you may of found the "one"? just because you and i are older we should be past the high school dating stage but i didnt start trying to settle down till a few years ago...rocky may think he loves her but he probably dont..the reason i say this is because i have talked to him personally on this subject... i think in my opinion rockys woman is alot like my ex to where she does not fully appreciate the man that rocky truly is... i think if you are unhappy you need to improve your situation... and do what it takes to do so... if she truly loves u rocky... explain to her how you feel and she will work on these things for you...if not bro, this new chick is the ticket for now...

just speaking from experience...i let my ex ruin the chance to be with 2 different very sweet loving women.... opportunity only knocks once or twice
 
jus saying i am the happiest i have been in awhile since i left my bitch of an ex...
 
I married my true first love and we have been together for over 40 years .
And we knew each other when she was about 9 or 10 .
I'm 2 years older than her.
 
Having a woman is like owning a pet rattle snake .
It isn't "If" you gonna get bit . It is just a matter of When .
 
had almost similar things with my ex gf and she broke up with me lol... start getting in fights with her it might spark her interest back up
 
now that i read the rest lol all girls like u when ur taken its a game they play they just want wut they cant have if u wanna prove this theory right tell her u and ur gf r getting into alot of fights then a week later tell her u broke up with her then try and go out with her and see if she seems as interested if not i told u so if she does then i dunno u have a choice to make lol
 
P. Bateman said:
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just saying if u aint happy it aint gunna work...divorce is so common and easy these days... why have one? picture marrying your woman living with her everyday... is that what you want??? why be miserable?? why waste time?? bro i know you are unhappy more than you are happy
 
I agree with benz. sounds like this isnt a fling if he said he really loves her..but if its like this early in the relationship, its hard to move on without changing one another and thats impossible.
 
well guys i appreciate all the advice...dunno how much its gonna help me. life is fine until i wanna do what i wanna do and be treated like i actually mean something. benz i do kno what love is homie...yeah im a little young but i wouldnt be breakin up with her bc i dunno if i like her...itd be more like i dont want her to spend the rest of her life with a guy she doesnt like. She has changed, not me...of course i kno everyone says that but its true in my case. No Joe i doubt shes actually gonna break up with me...she doesnt have it in her until u actually do smt to her to just absolutlely piss her the hell off....im not necessatrily happy but if i could have her like she used to be again there wouldnt be a girl on earth that could hold a candle anywhere next to her in my opinion(which is the only one that matters). when i think about the new girl i just think of all the benefits...i could hang out w my friends whenever i want to....shes hott, shes very nice, shes a smart ass--SO AM I! yatta yatta yatta, but i have to take in to consideration the fact that i dunno if she even really likes me plus i dont wanna make a mistake that i cant fix. i dont want to just flip my present gf a bird and hope to never see her again...we just have issues that idk if we can fix bc im tired of her being the consatant and me being the variable. I really do hate seeing her get her feelings hurt and as unhappy as i may sound toward her it would hurt me just as bad as it would her to break up with her...especially for another girl cause come on admit it...that is kinda shitty. i asked my best friend what he thought ...about the whole "grass being greener on the other side" and he said "hell, u gotta gotta get in the grass first...u just playin in dirt right now" lol

damn...i just dunno wtf to do...
 
Rocky07 said:
well guys i appreciate all the advice...dunno how much its gonna help me. life is fine until i wanna do what i wanna do and be treated like i actually mean something. benz i do kno what love is homie...yeah im a little young but i wouldnt be breakin up with her bc i dunno if i like her...itd be more like i dont want her to spend the rest of her life with a guy she doesnt like. She has changed, not me...of course i kno everyone says that but its true in my case. No Joe i doubt shes actually gonna break up with me...she doesnt have it in her until u actually do smt to her to just absolutlely piss her the hell off....im not necessatrily happy but if i could have her like she used to be again there wouldnt be a girl on earth that could hold a candle anywhere next to her in my opinion(which is the only one that matters). when i think about the new girl i just think of all the benefits...i could hang out w my friends whenever i want to....shes hott, shes very nice, shes a smart ass--SO AM I! yatta yatta yatta, but i have to take in to consideration the fact that i dunno if she even really likes me plus i dont wanna make a mistake that i cant fix. i dont want to just flip my present gf a bird and hope to never see her again...we just have issues that idk if we can fix bc im tired of her being the consatant and me being the variable. I really do hate seeing her get her feelings hurt and as unhappy as i may sound toward her it would hurt me just as bad as it would her to break up with her...especially for another girl cause come on admit it...that is kinda shitty. i asked my best friend what he thought ...about the whole "grass being greener on the other side" and he said "hell, u gotta gotta get in the grass first...u just playin in dirt right now" lol

damn...i just dunno wtf to do...
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man i went through this shit for 3 years with tracey... i didnt wanna leave her because i didnt wanna hurt her feelings... bro... if yall are meant to be it will be.... but now man I would give the grass on the other side a shot.... just my .02 cents.... just telling you from past probems that remarkable sound just like what i was going through... and again i know a bit more than the fellas here... man i am not trying to tell you to do something you gonna regret... but i kept going back to tracey because it was my "comfort zone" and i was afraid i would be lonely... ect... and she would find someone and i would be jealous and single... its a gamble you have to take... if those issues are in your head put them aside and work on rocky....make the best of the situation... try new things live a little... enjoy your freedom of being single... hell i wouldnt even consider a long term relationship at your age anyway...you are missing out of your best years in life...but man i can only speak for what i have been through..and what i have grown to learn... i will tell u one thing i wish i had those 4 years back i wasted on tracey... someone who tried to change me, i was never good enough for, ect.... i wish i could help more... but in the end you have to decide to work things out with whit or move on and find you a girl you are more compatible with man... there are plenty out there... not just whit.

bro i broke my engagement to be happy.... and guess what man.... knowing that its finally over with my ex is the best feeling i have had since i lost my virginity or saw that megadeth show...those rank up in the top to events in life...
 
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yeah man and i appreciate it black. in the end u are right...its just smt i gotta decide for myself. im glad everyone commented tho. sometimes even when u arent gonna use anyones advice its still nice to have their opinion. black ill be with the new girl at that concert i was telling u about...u kno who she is. im just gonna test the water and see if im sure i even want someone else or if i just need to make some serious adjustments in my present relationship. im not gonna cheat or anything like that as i NEVER have b4 but really im just gonna see how much fun i have and evaluate the situation and try to decide if new is better or if i should just keep tryin to make what i have work. i just want someone who wants me back, and is excited to see me and all that girly shit that none of u guys will admit that u have to have to stay in a relationship with a girl. my present gf is mad at me as we speak because i didnt come in there and take a nap with her as soon as i got out of the shower 15 mins ago lol....im just not tired...does it call for an argument?!

i can say one thing that i know i am tired of....arguing and being bitched at lol...u guys all know how i am against arguing and fussing...man i cant stand that shit. i told her this morning that from here on out there would be absolutely no arguing...if she bitches im not talkin anynore...and she keeps bitching im just gonna leave. anyway thanks AE! i appreciate all the input
 
some of the best advice I ever got. If your unhappy with your surroundings, change them. If the people that surround you make you unhappy, change them. etc. So long as you still have the ability to alter your own life and affect your happiness, why wouldnt you? <-- I know in some cases thats easier said than done. But listen to your gut man.. you probly already have the answers you need. Now its time to act on them
 
its been a month since i left my fiancee and i havent talked to her since... on top of that i dont miss her and her antics.... and best part i am happier than ever... rocky what did you do?
 
well right now im just chillin waitin on w/e is goin to happen to happen.
 
HOTROCKS said:
Bunch of punks that don't know jack about how to keep a woman .
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so u would rather someone be miserable with someone? b4 u call someone a punk, just cuz u are stuck with the same piece of ass all ur life... u may love ur wife and she may treat u great... but mine was a total bitch... from what rocky has described to me his is not far from it....
 
Punk! lol
It just appears to me you want a woman that will kiss your ass !
And it isn't gonna happen.
A "Releationship" is always a work in progress.
Ups , downs and in-betweens.

stuck with the same piece of ass all ur life
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I'm not stuck !
I just know how to handle women .
I've had that skill since I was in my teens.

You don't have to answer this if you don't want.
Did you come from a divorced family ?
 
HOTROCKS said:
Punk! lol
It just appears to me you want a woman that will kiss your ass !
And it isn't gonna happen.
A "Releationship" is always a work in progress.
Ups , downs and in-betweens.



I'm not stuck !
I just know how to handle women .
I've had that skill since I was in my teens.

You don't have to answer this if you don't want.
Did you come from a divorced family ?
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i came from divorced drug addict family but whats that gt to do with me? what i am saying is i would of been miserable with the woman i was trying to make love me...i improved my situation once before she split me and my girl up.... luckly this girl i am seeing loves me so much she took me back and i have never been happier
 
i dont understand why u guys always have to talk to a chick dont u wnaqna be on ur own and just worry bout u
 
wait whos dyslexic u lost me just dump the chick and be on ur own
 
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