Update

[T1DMMA2BB]

Sorry I have been MIA guys. Been working a ton and dealing with the whole wife thing. Missed BS'ing on the board and wanted to come back and give everyone an update.

So I separated from the wife and have been living in the house by myself, well recently she came back and wanted to try things again. Being the sucker I am I figured that I would give her a shot. Well three weeks after shes back she drinks while I'm out with some guys for a business meeting and come home to her texting some guy she met from her work. Long story shes packing her shit to leave on wednesday.

Me I have been back in the gym like a freak until about a week ago when my elbow started really giving me fits. I went to a doc and apparently I have golfer AND tennis elbow (Hey go big or go home right?) so I have to do the stretches every morning before work, take 400mgs of anti inflammatory medicine and then ice my elbow when I come home and do the stretches again. They said no weights for two weeks. I'm on day five and I want to split someone. I miss my gym. Aside from that I have dropped some BF and increased my strength quite a bit which is good. God bless sust and var haha. Business is going well and Im trying to keep my sanity without the gym and just doing cardio (which by the way sucks fat balls). Thats about it for the update, Oh and any advice on the golfers and tennis elbow would be greatly appreciated!

 

[liftsiron]

IMO it's best to just make a clean break, none of the back and forth bullshit.

 

[Darkness]

Cunt

 

[clutchitalian]

that sucks bro i hate these scandalous chicks..........

 

[T1DMMA2BB]

Yea its some bullshit for sure. But whatever time to lean out even more and do my thing. I've spent more than 7 months in the back and fourth stuff. Im over it.

 

[bufbiker]

Hang in there bud. Sounds like things are starting to look up.

 

[Starman]

I kept one with a drinking problem 6 years longer than I should have thinking it could be fixed. 12 years since I gave up and has been tring to drink her self to death since then, is almost there and will still deny having a problem.

 

[willsgotrythm]

No one can help anyone with a drinking problem. The one with the problem has to decide form him/her self that they want to stop. I don't do the back and forth shit either, it doesn't work. There is a reason you split up and that reason is still there. Just hang in there and time will help things get better, good luck bro!!

 

[Freezerdude]

I can't say much brother, I married my ex-wife twice but dear lord she was beautiful!! A lingerie model for JCP and Belks and a few others but at the time I drink entirely to much and was the one neglecting her according to her anyway...
I haven't drank in many years now, Do I regret screwing up that one YES but would I change anything if I had the chance NO or I wouldn't have the children I do now!
Good Luck my friend! Make yourself happy don't change or do anything different for a woman or anyone else trying to change you, but it sounds like you've done the right thing and have everything in order... Keep your head high brother and keep on trucking!!

 

[zeke]

Gotta agree with the guys and I know it's tough. Been back and forth with mine the last year out of our four year relationship.... Finally called it quites about 6 weeks ago. So I know how it feels but it gets better!!! Hang in there bro!!!

 

[T1DMMA2BB]

Thanks guys. Im working on it. Shes moving out at the end of the month. AGAIN. Shitty thing (and a blow to my ego) is the guy looks like her ex. Dont know what that hits so hard but it does. Plus I wont be able to see my little guy (technically not mine and I didnt adopt him) so when she moves Im sure it will be the last time I see him. Its fucking me up pretty good. Havent been to the gym in almost a week. Just dont seem to have the motivation that I had before with all this going on.

 

[USNCTT]

Thanks guys. Im working on it. Shes moving out at the end of the month. AGAIN. Shitty thing (and a blow to my ego) is the guy looks like her ex. Dont know what that hits so hard but it does. Plus I wont be able to see my little guy (technically not mine and I didnt adopt him) so when she moves Im sure it will be the last time I see him. Its fucking me up pretty good. Havent been to the gym in almost a week. Just dont seem to have the motivation that I had before with all this going on.

You and I have had plenty of convos about this situation man and you know I can relate with you. I am telling you that things will get better now that she is gone and you can focus on things. I know losing the little man will be rough not only for you but for him but you just have to do your best to dig deep and push through. And for the record the dude looks like a douche bag not only confirmed by me but also by T lol.