I want to beat his ass every day, but I go to the gym instead and do volume training. Now you know why I don't just do 3 sets of 6.
I agree with Dr Money and told my wife so. A few months ago when I figured out his name and told her, she flipped out screaming, "What are you going to do to him, what are you going to do?
I figured she WANTED me to do something, so then she could get custody of the kids and getting me removed from the house would be a cintch.
It's a sophmoric tactic, remember guys, when some girls in high school would pit two boys against each other just to watch them fight and so the girl could get her jollies?
I am a white teacher in a black high school, I have put up with so much shit in the past 8 years I wonder if anything can make me snap.
Anyway I told her, "I don't want anything to do with the guy, and if I ever meet him I'll just shake his hand and thank him for letting me see who I've been living with all these years." <enquote>
On another note, I could tell she loves this guy, so in a way I figured well at least someone is making her happy, and I was willing to move on, but, check out the guy's bio:
He's a Menonite, married with 2 boys 8 and 9. His wife is a teacher at a Christian School. I told her about the affair, but she can't really say anything about it.
She can only complain to the Elders, and they may ostrasize her for questioning the authority or business of the man.
Can you believe that shit???
He's a scumbag. I feel like kicking his ass just for fun, but unfortunately, I don't see it taking more than 30 seconds, so what's the point?
I even met a guy my wife works with over Christmas. He was pissed at her for making him look bad on a project (they are both scientists). I explained the situation and he was glad to help.
He's been emailing me every day telling when she comes and goes. Turns out she and this guy she's seeing (a chemist) go running together every day at the jogger track on site. They generally are gone for about 1 1/2 hours. It gets better. Turns out there is a jogger locker room and it is common practice for employees to have sex in the shower there.
According to my inside guy, she always comes back with a fresh shower now. Yeah they are totally involved.
I gave up on the house I was trying to get and lost my $2000 deposit. Now I can't afford to move anywhere.
I don't give a shit, I sleep in the spare room, barely speak to her at all, and spend everyday with my two girls.
This Saturday they have Individual Swimming Championships.
Two weeks ago (Sat) they had the League Championships.
The wife was pretending to work all morning and said she has to finish this spreadsheet, but the guy who emails me said she turned it in at 9 am that day because he has access to the time-stamp. My daughteres and I left at noon for the meet. She evidently went for her run, then met the guy, and got to the swim meet 3 hours in and missed seeing both girls swim. Ridiculous.
I fired my lawyer last week because he is worthless and a complete ass. Now I have no attorney, not much cash, and am in the middle of here and there.
So, my saving grace has been my faith and the supersets.
I am a good person, I don't take advantage of anyone.
My W-2 just came in. My wife has been gouging me into paying her tax burden for years. I haven't had a refund of over $100 in 5 years.
This year I am tempted to file married filing separate, and put both kids on it so I get the refund and she gets the shaft.
I'm tempted but it doesn't seem right. Maybe I'll just set the precedent of shared parenting and claim one kid then let the chips fall where they may.
Now she's yelling at the girls to go to practice like their swimming really matters. I guess she won't be fucking him this weekend since she has a "discharge." Too funny!
Yeah, and I'm clean, I had a clomidia and gonoreah test done and it came back negative.
I'm ok for now, taking baby steps, getting my confidence back, and focusing on being better at my job.
Time to step up, but there's no hurry. The tide is turning!
