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ozzy69

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Lately I have zero tolerance for people and most bullshit. Case in point little oz had his second flag football game today and one of the kids on the other team purposely hit every kid on my sons team on purpose and was told to go to the sidelines and his dad was high fiving him for it. Long story short it took my father in law stepping in before I killed that parent. But I did get in the "great parenting you fat doughy fuck you better pray to god i don't see you out and about"

The kids are just learning to play and they are 3-5 years old and my son and my buddy's kid being the only 3 year olds on the team.

WTF is wrong with people?! And I can't believe I was the only parent to knuckle up on this fat shit. And to top it off he was dressed up like he was at a college game wearing a full Iowa get up.

His actions are making my blood boil right now.
 
i've found that the less i'm on social networks and the less i watch cable news shows, the easier it is to get along with people...
 
You shouldn't put up with that and I'm glad u didn't.
People like that think they can bully and teach their kids to do the same.
There's no problem with you on the sidelines making sure crap like that gets called on the carpet. That's the solution!
 
ozzy69 said:
We have established that LOL
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That and a little tren could get someone Hurt!! lol, Been there many times before..
I been going through the same shit lately brother I was thinking about you when I had "the talk" with my daughter the other day.. The neighbor kids (two little 8yr old boys) picking on my daughter..
They was playing tag and both boys are a lot bigger than my daughter and her little girl friend that lives beside us playing tag and the 2 boy would make it a point to push the girls down on the ground when they tagged them..
Well she came inside Tue and Wed crying where the boys had pushed her to the ground and scuffed up her back pretty bad.. I told her if she came inside one more time crying because anyone had hurt her and she didn't take up for herself I would beat the hell out of her..
Well low and behold I was working outside in the yard Friday and the neighbors boys Mom n Dad came walking across the street and hollered up the hill where is Josie's parents? I said I'm her father what's up and the dad said I just wanted to apologize for Seth hitting Josie and I said I didn't know he did..
Then the dad said yes Seth just came home with a bloodied nose and a cut on his eye brow and I asked him what happen to him and he said I threw a baseball and hit Josie in the back and he asked him well why are you bleeding if you hit her with a ball and the kid said well when I hit her she started to cry and then she picked up a stick and smacked me in the face and it busted my nose and eye and the Dad just said well that will teach you to pick on a little girl that's meaner than you are..
The father continued to tell me he grounded the boys for picking on the girls and I warned him I had already told her if they picked on her anymore it would only get worse so he better talk to the kids before they did it again because next time it may be a brick or something harder than the stick..lol
After I asked Josie why she hit him and she showed me the red spot on her back and said well you told me to take up for myself or get a whipping.. So needless to say she got a big hug and then we went out and got ice cream....
 
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You tell Josie good job from uncle Oz! FD you did it right for sure I need to get some parenting advice every now and again and I think I need to put you willi and darkness on speed dial LOL
 
Its kind of a tight wire act teaching a kid how to to handle people. In one hand you certainly want them to grow up to be a gentleman, on the other hand you certainly don't want them to be meek in any way.

You wont be able to fix stupid parents though.
 
You did the right thing. The cunt was lucky you didn't plow his face in.
 
Glycomann said:
You did the right thing. The cunt was lucky you didn't plow his face in.
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G it was sickening these are 3-5 year olds and there is know reason for that type of behavior and then the parent celebrates it afterwards made me think that I don't want JR playing organized team sports and ill just have him in wrestling and martial arts instead but the idea of a team and team work is what a child needs for development.

Thank god the wife was at work and it was me the father in law and the sister in law cuz mrs oz would still have me sleeping on the couch.

I'm not a type of parent that will tell at a coach of a ref/umpire but I have no issue cutting loose on parent if their kid is a peckerhead for being unsportsmanlike cuz they learned it somewhere and I would blame a parent.

If I wanted to live through my children I would already have little man racing BMX and prepping him for a career in cycling but I want him to enjoy sports not regret them. Hell the little twin boys on the team didn't want to go back on the field after that and I didn't blame them.
 
I'd be irate too if some dumbass parent was praising their kid for being a dick to others, especially those smaller than him. That father needs his ass beat....but then he is probably the type to press charges after getting his ass beat, like a little pussy hypocrit.
 
Freezerdude said:
That and a little tren could get someone Hurt!! lol, Been there many times before..
I been going through the same shit lately brother I was thinking about you when I had "the talk" with my daughter the other day.. The neighbor kids (two little 8yr old boys) picking on my daughter..
They was playing tag and both boys are a lot bigger than my daughter and her little girl friend that lives beside us playing tag and the 2 boy would make it a point to push the girls down on the ground when they tagged them..
Well she came inside Tue and Wed crying where the boys had pushed her to the ground and scuffed up her back pretty bad.. I told her if she came inside one more time crying because anyone had hurt her and she didn't take up for herself I would beat the hell out of her..
Well low and behold I was working outside in the yard Friday and the neighbors boys Mom n Dad came walking across the street and hollered up the hill where is Josie's parents? I said I'm her father what's up and the dad said I just wanted to apologize for Seth hitting Josie and I said I didn't know he did..
Then the dad said yes Seth just came home with a bloodied nose and a cut on his eye brow and I asked him what happen to him and he said I threw a baseball and hit Josie in the back and he asked him well why are you bleeding if you hit her with a ball and the kid said well when I hit her she started to cry and then she picked up a stick and smacked me in the face and it busted my nose and eye and the Dad just said well that will teach you to pick on a little girl that's meaner than you are..
The father continued to tell me he grounded the boys for picking on the girls and I warned him I had already told her if they picked on her anymore it would only get worse so he better talk to the kids before they did it again because next time it may be a brick or something harder than the stick..lol
After I asked Josie why she hit him and she showed me the red spot on her back and said well you told me to take up for myself or get a whipping.. So needless to say she got a big hug and then we went out and got ice cream....
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Great story!!!
 
ozzy69 said:
You tell Josie good job from uncle Oz! FD you did it right for sure I need to get some parenting advice every now and again and I think I need to put you willi and darkness on speed dial LOL
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I'll tell her old friend and you got my number on speed dial already and are welcome to call me anytime you know that...
 
You are not being over protective.... my son was in pee wee baseball a few years back... they just play other teams in the same town.. well thw one game it was surely the better hand picked kids on the opposite team... long story short my son got beaned by a tossed ball started to cry and the father of the thrower and the coach both started to giggle.... i could see their lips moving but was too far away to hear.... anyway.... my son when home with his mom the coach and other father went to the hospital and i went to lock up... he is now several years older and the same kid avoids my son with a passion.. no troubles since...
 
nightrain116 said:
You are not being over protective.... my son was in pee wee baseball a few years back... they just play other teams in the same town.. well thw one game it was surely the better hand picked kids on the opposite team... long story short my son got beaned by a tossed ball started to cry and the father of the thrower and the coach both started to giggle.... i could see their lips moving but was too far away to hear.... anyway.... my son when home with his mom the coach and other father went to the hospital and i went to lock up... he is now several years older and the same kid avoids my son with a passion.. no troubles since...
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Personally I like your style. Srs.
 
Nothing's wrong with you, something's wrong with society. The self-centered are taking over leaving little room for the rest of us. All we can do is instil decent morals and values into our children and hope that they take the path less travelled.
 
Happiness is beating another man motionless in front of your spawn.
 
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nightrain116 said:
You are not being over protective.... my son was in pee wee baseball a few years back... they just play other teams in the same town.. well thw one game it was surely the better hand picked kids on the opposite team... long story short my son got beaned by a tossed ball started to cry and the father of the thrower and the coach both started to giggle.... i could see their lips moving but was too far away to hear.... anyway.... my son when home with his mom the coach and other father went to the hospital and i went to lock up... he is now several years older and the same kid avoids my son with a passion.. no troubles since...
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That was a moving story. I'm sorry you had to go to lock up they should have locked up the other asses.
 
It's bad parenting man. The guy was probably never good at any sport and got beat up in high school and wants his son to be the "tough guy" he never was. Having said that I no tolerance for that either. If it was my son I too would have been in lock up. I was helping a buddy coach a soccer game once, I have no kids on the team, just helping coach. The other parents were so nasty and sickening I left before the game was over because I wanted to choke every MF'er over there, and I could have. Society and parenting is much different than when I was growing up. I was taught to play ball hardcore and not show mercy but not to cheap shot or play dirty. My father and coach would have had me on the sideline chewing my ass if I was acting that way.

To answer your question Ozzy, there is nothing wrong with you. You showed more restraint than I could have.
 
Darkness said:
Its kind of a tight wire act teaching a kid how to to handle people. In one hand you certainly want them to grow up to be a gentleman, on the other hand you certainly don't want them to be meek in any way.
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Very well put and very true!
 
I would have done the same freakin thing. I hate people like that... My gf and I have been off and on for a year and it has made me unbearable. Now that we aren't together it has been better. I'm more laid back, even on the road!!!
 
You did the rite thing. I too had a few incidents when my boy was playing football. Even if at times it wasn't towards my son.
What I think bugs me as much is when other parents don't say shit like if it's normal for someone to act like a fucken retard...
If it wasn't for having a conscious and respect for the kids I've stopped myself from beating the dog shit of some dads..
 
Darkness said it perfectly...it's a fine line you're walking there.having no kids of my own i can't say for sure how i'd react but i'm quite sure it would've been along your lines.

no man wants his son to be the kid getting picked on but at the same time wants his kid to learn both good sportsmanship by being a good loser AND a good winner.no parent should allow his kid to rub it in the others faces as if they're just loser punks.that's when teeth become piles of bone on the ground.he is lucky he didn't catch you on an "off tren day" i would hope lol.teaching your kid both right and wrong is a daunting task these days but is needed to keep them from becoming wreckless bullies that wind up as serial killers and power hungry ego maniacs.you did the right thing and held back.let your father in law step in a bit to control things...i'm quite sure he's seen the fuglier side of you on aas which is exactly what the other parents will blame from the get go...he's roid raging,oooh my Gawd,hide the kids Jerome...the man's insane!" lmao! sad but true nonetheless...rocco.
 
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