Ok help with this girl - so bad at games -long sorry

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Ok so finally this girl I've been trying to snag for months invites me to a family party last Saturday. Shes gorgeous, great body and a lot of fun. Oh and shes a Miller Lite girl. That alone does it for me.

So she meets me at my friends house where we had a few drinks then went to her aunts house for the party. The night went great, we ended up going to a bar and then back to my place.

She had to leave early to go take care of some stuff, got ready and we spent most of Sunday together. We went to several friends houses and she later told me how much she liked all of them and how much her fam liked me and that she thinks shes ready for a relationship.

So cool and all shes messaging me these long emails on myspace about how she wants a relationship. That was Monday. She came up to my work and brought me lunch because I had to work on her car. She drives a Charger and Im a service writer at Dodge.

She comes and picks the car up the next day. I had it washed and filled it up with gas. No biggie. Shes all on me in my office and kissed me several times while there.

Then shit happens

Well Tuesday we decided would nit be a good night because I had to work early the next day.

So she asks if I want to go out Wednesday then comes up with this whole excuse about family problems. So that night nothing. I got pretty upset about it and told her I was. She told me she wasnt blowing me off and promised we could hang out Thursday. I told her whatever just call when shes on the way over.

Well Thursday she talk to one of my girlfriends at work and tells her I dont seem interested enough and Im taking it too slow. So I tell her I like her a lot and all and that I dont want to scare her off. So she sends me this email about how nervous she is around me and how shes glad that she can tell guys shes dating someone when she goes to nascar this weekend. She made the plans months ago and I told her I didnt mind. I did a little but not really since I just started seeing her.

Well that night she makes another excuse about going to see her friend that was in a drunk driving accident. The story is legit. I know of the guy. Well I get pissed I ask her if shes trying to play games or what. She swears shes not and admits that she has been blowing me off a little because she doesn't want to get hurt. But promises she wont again.

Well Friday she asks me out to lunch and her family is there. They all like me and everything goes well. I kiss her and she goes off to Nascar with some friends. I told her call me if she has time.

She text me the 1st night that this sucks and she wants to come home. She even called me all upset. I tell her the next day will be fun and relax. Well she texts me the Next day at like 7pm saying that was so much fun, I asked what and she said the races (I was confused about which day they were on). I tell her glad she had fun. she doesnt text back and I text well guess youre busy call me whenever you have time.

She texts me at like 1030 on Sunday saying she had so much fun and got so drunk. I told her cool and told her what I did (went to lubbock with my friends) and then told her I wanted to see her soon. then another text saying if youre not too busy haha.

Havent heard from her since and shes supposed to be on her way back. I just dont know how to play this... I try to act like I dont care much but I really do. I want this girl to be my girlfriend. Pretty much all I've heard from her is the same. Just when it comes time to seeing me shes a little flaky.

Should I not bring up hanging out again till she does? If she does should I tell her I cant that night so she wants me more? I hate this game shit. I hate that she never text me back today after me saying I want to see her. Any advice?

Oh and we live about 30 minutes away from eachother in diff towns. But shes thinking about moving here.
 
Im just so confused. Tons going on in my head. Blah. I do so bad with the girls I want but the girls I just hangout with and blow off are nuts about me. I try to treat the ones I like, like its no big deal but I cant. Someone help me out!
 
She likes you no doubt and youre probably the type of guy her family would be happy to see her with but she is screwing someone else..just my 02 cents..sorry ,my honest opinion.
 
She likes you no doubt and youre probably the type of guy her family would be happy to see her with but she is screwing someone else..just my 02 cents..sorry ,my honest opinion.

See thats what I thought too. Shes just so open about everything. She writes all her friends on myspace that she is kinda dating this new guy out in the open and Im the only one on her top friends thats not in her fam. I know myspace is pretty gay but it shows something. She told me that she hasnt slept with anyone in months. Oh did I mention we slept together that Sat night? She could not quit going on about how great I was and how "big" I was. Not boasting, its in the family. So if she was screwing some other guy.....blah fuck it. :rant: How do I play this so I get this girl???????
 
or maybe she wants to jump on a serious relationship with u but doesnt want give up her freedom just yet..Just play it cool .Dont act like if you care too much just go with the flow...whatever happens happens
 
or maybe she wants to jump on a serious relationship with u but doesnt want give up her freedom just yet..Just play it cool .Dont act like if you care too much just go with the flow...whatever happens happens

This is her message from myspace:

ok here we go... ok so i really like you.. i have not liked ne one ,nor dated in almost a yr since my x fucked me over so bad!!! i am so scared to get into a relationship and even more scared to fall n love!-- I guess that is why I am so nervous around u! who knows!!! U wil prob hear some pretty bad things about me, bc i have gone a lil crazy since i mov ed back! but blow it all off please Bahaha!
but alot has been going on and thats why its been hard for me o hang out! I am VERYYYY family oriented.. i guess bc i have learned over the past 4 yrs that my family is really all i have. they dont lie,.. they wont cheat..they dont fuck u over like everyone else in the world will! its hard for me to let my guard down and im gla that u wanna take it slow! Its just hard bc u seem so much better then me? ur 27, u know what u want in life! im 21 and have no idea what my purpose ism what i wanna major in, where i wanna live! i dont know !
my friend got in a horrible accident a while back and i was there for him when no one else was then the past 3 weeks i got really bad doing coke, and shit like that its like i forgto who i was for a second and forgot i needed 2 be there for him.. i need 2 go see him 2night but im scared he is really upset with me ! ah i dont know there is a blog on my profile about him if u wanna read it!!!! my aunt and her fiance split up. he went crazy on her. and me.. got in my face earlier and told me " BITCH get the fuck out of myhouse" i tthoight he was going to hit me.. so wwere letting her stay with us! i dnt kmnow it has just been crazy arund her! Hope i didnt scare u off.. lol im really outspoken and ill let u know whats goin on if im acting weird!!!!
u dont have to write me back ahahah just wanted u to read it!
xoxox
 
Then this before she blew me off on Thursday:

DONT BE CONFUSED! TAKE THAT SHIT OFF THERE! BE HAPPY! BC I LIKE U AND U LIKE ME HAHA! I JUST WANTED TO KNOW WHAT WE WERE SO I KNOW HOW TO REACT TO GUYS THIS WEEKEND HA! NOW THAT I KNOW THAT WERE "DATING" I KNOW :) U KNOW WHAT IM SAYING?
OK WELL IM OFF TO SEE ******... THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING!! HE S AGOOD FRIEND TO ME AND HE ASKED ME TO COME HANG OUT.. I CANT SAY NO ESP CAUSE THE SITUATION HE IS IN! I HAVE TOO GOOD OF A HEART!! I DONT WANNA DRIVE TO ******* 2 NIGHT... THEN ALL THE WAY BACK AND BACK IN MORNING U KNOW?? SO MAYBE U CAN COME HERE.. AND WE CAN HAVE SOME DRINKS OR GET IN HOT TUB ( EVEN THO PARENTS ARE HERE) ITS UP TO U!! TTYL XOXOX
 
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with these young bitches you never know nowdayz ,bro..she seems really immature and full of excuses, like if she's hiding sum shit ..this and that..it's your call ,bro..i can read messages all day but it's up to you to decide..youre the one who looks into her eyes and see the way she reacts and shit..if you have a gut feeling bout her youre probably right.
 
with these young bitches you never know nowdayz ,bro..she seems really immature and full of excuses, like if she's hiding sum shit ..this and that..it's your call ,bro..i can read messages all day but it's up to you to decide..youre the one who looks into her eyes and see the way she reacts and shit..if you have a gut feeling bout her youre probably right.

Ok :mad: Shes just so hot. Like one of the hottest I ever dated and I've dated some hot ass girls. LOL. Not just her face but she has implants and the best tank I've seen in a while. Even if its nothing thats going to workout into a long term thing, Id like to smash a few more times. Thats the asshole in me haha.
 
oh no you should hit that for as long as you can ..just do not let your heart and deep feelings get involved unless she proves you she deserves them...keep bangin' ,homey...happy fuckings.
 
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Honestly bro, she sounds a bit whacked putting all that shit on myspace. But it seems like every girl I meet turns out to be a whack job. Just wait and see how things turn out, that's about all anyone can do.
 
oh no you should hit that for as long as you can ..just do not your heart and deep feelings involved unless she proves you she deserves them...keep bangin' ,homey...happy fuckings.

+1.....bitch sounds like a freak....tear that shit up!
 
IMHO Crombie, you need to relax and stop getting upset at her and with her. Even if you are upset, don't show it. That's just feeding into it. I think she does this because you're kinda "waiting around" for her. Don't be so accessable, meaning don't be so available to her so much. Don't ask her out 3 or 4 nights in a row, meaning don't ask do you have plans Mon...how about Tue....Wed?.... how about Thur. Don't seem desperate bro. Just my .02.
 
See thats what I thought too. Shes just so open about everything. She writes all her friends on myspace that she is kinda dating this new guy out in the open and Im the only one on her top friends thats not in her fam. I know myspace is pretty gay but it shows something. She told me that she hasnt slept with anyone in months. Oh did I mention we slept together that Sat night? She could not quit going on about how great I was and how "big" I was. Not boasting, its in the family. So if she was screwing some other guy.....blah fuck it. :rant: How do I play this so I get this girl???????

bro ide play it cool..dont act like your sweating it...go out have fun..it would be best if your out and she calls you so she can see your having a good time with out her..but maybe you can just make it up one day if she calls..blast the radio or some shit.talk about how wasted you are and how much fun your having..

but wat i can really tell you is not to seem like the crazy soon to be boyfriend and shit cuz that will scare her off quickly!
 
This is her message from myspace:

ok here we go... ok so i really like you.. i have not liked ne one ,nor dated in almost a yr since my x fucked me over so bad!!! i am so scared to get into a relationship and even more scared to fall n love!-- I guess that is why I am so nervous around u! who knows!!! U wil prob hear some pretty bad things about me, bc i have gone a lil crazy since i mov ed back! but blow it all off please Bahaha!
but alot has been going on and thats why its been hard for me o hang out! I am VERYYYY family oriented.. i guess bc i have learned over the past 4 yrs that my family is really all i have. they dont lie,.. they wont cheat..they dont fuck u over like everyone else in the world will! its hard for me to let my guard down and im gla that u wanna take it slow! Its just hard bc u seem so much better then me? ur 27, u know what u want in life! im 21 and have no idea what my purpose ism what i wanna major in, where i wanna live! i dont know !
my friend got in a horrible accident a while back and i was there for him when no one else was then the past 3 weeks i got really bad doing coke, and shit like that its like i forgto who i was for a second and forgot i needed 2 be there for him.. i need 2 go see him 2night but im scared he is really upset with me ! ah i dont know there is a blog on my profile about him if u wanna read it!!!! my aunt and her fiance split up. he went crazy on her. and me.. got in my face earlier and told me " BITCH get the fuck out of myhouse" i tthoight he was going to hit me.. so wwere letting her stay with us! i dnt kmnow it has just been crazy arund her! Hope i didnt scare u off.. lol im really outspoken and ill let u know whats goin on if im acting weird!!!!
u dont have to write me back ahahah just wanted u to read it!
xoxox


bro honestly...i had this problem bro..shes probably still doing the white thing..just hiding it fairly well..if she drinks hard and parties more than usuall thats probably the case..i fell into that trap years ago..luckily got out of it..especially if shes disapearing for a couple nights not writing back and shit..just my opinion
 

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