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crombie09
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Ok so finally this girl I've been trying to snag for months invites me to a family party last Saturday. Shes gorgeous, great body and a lot of fun. Oh and shes a Miller Lite girl. That alone does it for me.
So she meets me at my friends house where we had a few drinks then went to her aunts house for the party. The night went great, we ended up going to a bar and then back to my place.
She had to leave early to go take care of some stuff, got ready and we spent most of Sunday together. We went to several friends houses and she later told me how much she liked all of them and how much her fam liked me and that she thinks shes ready for a relationship.
So cool and all shes messaging me these long emails on myspace about how she wants a relationship. That was Monday. She came up to my work and brought me lunch because I had to work on her car. She drives a Charger and Im a service writer at Dodge.
She comes and picks the car up the next day. I had it washed and filled it up with gas. No biggie. Shes all on me in my office and kissed me several times while there.
Then shit happens
Well Tuesday we decided would nit be a good night because I had to work early the next day.
So she asks if I want to go out Wednesday then comes up with this whole excuse about family problems. So that night nothing. I got pretty upset about it and told her I was. She told me she wasnt blowing me off and promised we could hang out Thursday. I told her whatever just call when shes on the way over.
Well Thursday she talk to one of my girlfriends at work and tells her I dont seem interested enough and Im taking it too slow. So I tell her I like her a lot and all and that I dont want to scare her off. So she sends me this email about how nervous she is around me and how shes glad that she can tell guys shes dating someone when she goes to nascar this weekend. She made the plans months ago and I told her I didnt mind. I did a little but not really since I just started seeing her.
Well that night she makes another excuse about going to see her friend that was in a drunk driving accident. The story is legit. I know of the guy. Well I get pissed I ask her if shes trying to play games or what. She swears shes not and admits that she has been blowing me off a little because she doesn't want to get hurt. But promises she wont again.
Well Friday she asks me out to lunch and her family is there. They all like me and everything goes well. I kiss her and she goes off to Nascar with some friends. I told her call me if she has time.
She text me the 1st night that this sucks and she wants to come home. She even called me all upset. I tell her the next day will be fun and relax. Well she texts me the Next day at like 7pm saying that was so much fun, I asked what and she said the races (I was confused about which day they were on). I tell her glad she had fun. she doesnt text back and I text well guess youre busy call me whenever you have time.
She texts me at like 1030 on Sunday saying she had so much fun and got so drunk. I told her cool and told her what I did (went to lubbock with my friends) and then told her I wanted to see her soon. then another text saying if youre not too busy haha.
Havent heard from her since and shes supposed to be on her way back. I just dont know how to play this... I try to act like I dont care much but I really do. I want this girl to be my girlfriend. Pretty much all I've heard from her is the same. Just when it comes time to seeing me shes a little flaky.
Should I not bring up hanging out again till she does? If she does should I tell her I cant that night so she wants me more? I hate this game shit. I hate that she never text me back today after me saying I want to see her. Any advice?
Oh and we live about 30 minutes away from eachother in diff towns. But shes thinking about moving here.
So she meets me at my friends house where we had a few drinks then went to her aunts house for the party. The night went great, we ended up going to a bar and then back to my place.
She had to leave early to go take care of some stuff, got ready and we spent most of Sunday together. We went to several friends houses and she later told me how much she liked all of them and how much her fam liked me and that she thinks shes ready for a relationship.
So cool and all shes messaging me these long emails on myspace about how she wants a relationship. That was Monday. She came up to my work and brought me lunch because I had to work on her car. She drives a Charger and Im a service writer at Dodge.
She comes and picks the car up the next day. I had it washed and filled it up with gas. No biggie. Shes all on me in my office and kissed me several times while there.
Then shit happens
Well Tuesday we decided would nit be a good night because I had to work early the next day.
So she asks if I want to go out Wednesday then comes up with this whole excuse about family problems. So that night nothing. I got pretty upset about it and told her I was. She told me she wasnt blowing me off and promised we could hang out Thursday. I told her whatever just call when shes on the way over.
Well Thursday she talk to one of my girlfriends at work and tells her I dont seem interested enough and Im taking it too slow. So I tell her I like her a lot and all and that I dont want to scare her off. So she sends me this email about how nervous she is around me and how shes glad that she can tell guys shes dating someone when she goes to nascar this weekend. She made the plans months ago and I told her I didnt mind. I did a little but not really since I just started seeing her.
Well that night she makes another excuse about going to see her friend that was in a drunk driving accident. The story is legit. I know of the guy. Well I get pissed I ask her if shes trying to play games or what. She swears shes not and admits that she has been blowing me off a little because she doesn't want to get hurt. But promises she wont again.
Well Friday she asks me out to lunch and her family is there. They all like me and everything goes well. I kiss her and she goes off to Nascar with some friends. I told her call me if she has time.
She text me the 1st night that this sucks and she wants to come home. She even called me all upset. I tell her the next day will be fun and relax. Well she texts me the Next day at like 7pm saying that was so much fun, I asked what and she said the races (I was confused about which day they were on). I tell her glad she had fun. she doesnt text back and I text well guess youre busy call me whenever you have time.
She texts me at like 1030 on Sunday saying she had so much fun and got so drunk. I told her cool and told her what I did (went to lubbock with my friends) and then told her I wanted to see her soon. then another text saying if youre not too busy haha.
Havent heard from her since and shes supposed to be on her way back. I just dont know how to play this... I try to act like I dont care much but I really do. I want this girl to be my girlfriend. Pretty much all I've heard from her is the same. Just when it comes time to seeing me shes a little flaky.
Should I not bring up hanging out again till she does? If she does should I tell her I cant that night so she wants me more? I hate this game shit. I hate that she never text me back today after me saying I want to see her. Any advice?
Oh and we live about 30 minutes away from eachother in diff towns. But shes thinking about moving here.