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[JrMaFia]

I am calling it quits with my gf of a year and a half. I am 25 she is 25 she keeps pushing having kids in the next few years and the mom keeps pushing it to. I keep telling her when it is right it is right its unfair to bring mouhts into this world and not be able to feed them. I can maybe getting married in a few years. She also contradicts herself she wants to move forward but when i keep mentioning saving by staying home she has a plan for every single night we are free. I explained if we are saving to get a place you cannot go out every night of the week. Also she is in debt she wants to move forward but won't let me do all the financial stuff and come along. I caught he contradicting herself a million times and in her typical fashion she turnt it into i was attacking her or insulting her intelligence. We are togther over a year and this is the 3rd or 4th time we are breaking up she always comes back to me honestly i seriously want to date a girl a few years younger than me i am tired of her shit. She will be back she will not find someone like me, not to sound arrogant or anything but i will own my business by the time i am 30 and honestly i don't think i want her. Her mom does not work at all and the father supports everythin and nothing the dad does is good enough. They say when u look at a women alot of times look at the mother. My ex straight out told me she is jelous of me because i bought a mercedes and have all this stuff. PLus i feel like we have nothing in common in the beginning she wanted to have everything in common and now she just doesn't care like everything is opposite and to be honest our sex life is not really that great like she has no clue what she is doing and i try to tell her and she gets offended.

Just had to vent i kind of have noone to talk to about this.

 

[Forkboy]

maybe she wants to marry you. Because u got a lot of money. Leave her men lots of good girls around you can hang on. And not going for your money

 

[makaveli25]

If you are truly in love with her things will workout for you guys. If not you will know. Dont continue to waste your time. Ive been with a girl for 8 years weve been through soo much. We always found our way back to eachoterh beacuse were truly in love

 

[Forkboy]

If you are truly in love with her things will workout for you guys. If not you will know. Dont continue to waste your time. Ive been with a girl for 8 years weve been through soo much. We always found our way back to eachoterh beacuse were truly in love

what happend?

 

[Ms.Wetback]

I think you mean you need to date a woman OLDER than you..........someone more mature and not into the BS party life.

 

[black7]

good idea jr... i am in the same situation... my girl actually told me i dont take her out enough i was saving for a very nice wedding ring she picked out... 8k... and she dont see all the things i do 4 her.... man u will find someone better... dont settle bro...

 

[JrMaFia]

I think you mean you need to date a woman OLDER than you..........someone more mature and not into the BS party life.

Its not really she is into party life, but like she will have 3 days off and want to only hang out with me unless we are going somewhere. To be honest to my idea of fun has changed i like a movie or dinner or just like a drink in a low key place. She said she settled down with someone already and didnt go out and it got her nowhere. So i told her it is obvious you are not over your ex you are grouping us as the same people. i was explaining to her we are a different kind of people becauase of class. He like dropped out of highschool and comes from a broken home and her answer to me is it is messed up for me to say that and she thought i was talking about money. WHich i explained money does not buy you class.

It is going to be hard at first but i will be better in the long run.

 

[black7]

MAN i swear this chick sounds just like mine bro... man thats crazy

 

[Ms.Wetback]

Could be worse Jr, it is not like you spent a ton of money on her with a ring or buying her boobs.

 

[JrMaFia]

That is true and i am still young and there is a whole crop of younger girls that will want to fit into my life and not make me conform to their standard

 

[Valkyrie]

your too young to be dealing with that crap especially when your trying to organize your future..

 

[black7]

your too young to be dealing with that crap especially when your trying to organize your future..

lol

 

[JrMaFia]

I am lining dates up right now for weekend

 

[OLYMPIAN]

I'm drunk ,swimming in a sea of luv right now..

 

[black7]

I'm drunk ,swimming in a sea of luv right now..

:gay:

 

[JrMaFia]

So far so good i get lonely at night and in the morning but i have been chilling with my friends alot. I got a date tonight with 2 girls and going to DC this weekend to party. Does this get easier after time?

 

[black7]

So far so good i get lonely at night and in the morning but i have been chilling with my friends alot. I got a date tonight with 2 girls and going to DC this weekend to party. Does this get easier after time?

I HOPE SO MAN... IT DEF SUCKS... just think we ought to enjoy ourselves 4 a bit

 

[need2lift]

So far so good i get lonely at night and in the morning but i have been chilling with my friends alot. I got a date tonight with 2 girls and going to DC this weekend to party. Does this get easier after time?

A date with 2 girls should make things get easier in a hurry!

 

[JrMaFia]

yea but i dated this girl before and like i really liked her and she liked me. She is in school to become a teacher, so last time she was saying how she is going to be really busy and all this stuff so i thought she was blowing me off. Then my ex comes back around and i went back with my ex because i thought this chick was blowing me off. She was pissed at me, but obviously she is interested she bought up chillling